Nope, I had a problem a couple years ago with alcoholism, and smoking laced weed. I have been clean for probably 2 years now, minus a joint a I smoked with a friend in January. I am completly sober including no tobbaco use of any kind. I encourage anyone who reads this to do the same, or atleast be casual about your weed or whatever use like a joint a week at most.
Faithfulness, patiences (at times), relatability on somethings, someone who is understanding of situations. someone who also isn't like stalking the shit out of me to make sure I'm not doing anything wrong. but I know it seems long but all and all I want minimal pain, and fun relationship.