Ok so think about this: In the long term, there's a possibility that this relationship won't work out. Education though, always does. If you've found a better school, a school more suited to your tastes and that you feel will give you a better experience then I would definitely suggest that you choose this school. Although you just started dating him for a few weeks, if he's a truly supportive and all round great guy that you should be with then he wouldn't let something like this get in between it. No doubt he might be upset and I suppose maybe you too, after all you both had these plans surrounding the fact that you were going to be in the same university but you have to choose what's best for you and that is to not compromise on your education. See, if you feel that you would still be happy and it would benefit you to stay in this university then by all means stay, but I believe that you have to chase your dreams and picking the better university will help you do that. In fact if you do pick the other school and this guy supports you then you've got the best of both worlds. Be strong and make good choices. Make a decision you won't regret 10 years from now. Stay wonderful xx

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First of all, congratulations on all your hard work till date that has brought you to this point. You've faced a lot of hardships, loads of sleepless nights, read through countless books.
You have the potential for greatness and you know it. That is why you made up your mind and planned to study abroad. Stay true to your awesome self. You can do it. You are a rockstar and this is your pre-show fright. Every great rocker has felt it and those who say they haven't are straight up lying. This fright is your enemy. It makes you think you're not good enough or that you won't make it. That's absolute rubbish. You know how amazing you are. Now, you must step up to the stage and accept your destiny. This moment is the fruit of all your hard work. Embrace it.
It's absolutely normal to feel jittery and nervous. It is a big life decision but nonetheless it's the one you've wanted and the one you've taken. Trust yourself, you've come so far, you must have had your fair share of troubles too, so just relax and take this up as a challenge. If you're feeling nervous about the new place and people, you can always interact with your university people. The beginnings are the hardest part, so just take the first step and it will all be fine. It's your education at stake, so take a deep breath and think about the things scaring you and work on them one by one.
The first day of school worked out, so will this.
I have faith in you. You will be amazing. Just remember that you always have the support of your loved ones. Take care and all the best!

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We all have panic attacks while taking major decisions on life, we all feel lost some times. And we all sit down and tear up.
Its perfectly fine.
You know what you must do? Breathe. In and out. Regulate your heartbeat When ever you are making a decision. Take deep breaths. Close your eyes for a bit. And drink some water.
Uprooting yourself from anywhere is always hard, but you must remember that with transition comes experience. What you have grown to cherish will always be there in your memories, and you will find much more, explore much more.
What is the point of living, if you dont live a little?
Dont worry about change. It comes, it goes. It is a part of life.
Take a decision. With a clear head. Dont make rash decisions. Choose the college that you think will be the best for you. Confide in your family or a friend, so that they can be there to give you moral support if you need it, while accepting a college.
And above all, smile.
And tell yourself, out loud, that you can do it. Because you can.

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Now go, and live your life.
All the best, and I hope you get to go to the uni you want to.
Stay Wonderful xx

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