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Do you think if someone breaks up with you then they owe you some kind of explanation as to why? I was broken up with a few weeks ago and the guy refuses to tell me exactly why. I know he's giving me phony excuses. It seemed like he really liked me so its bothering me that idk what went wrong.

Something important I've learned is you don't always get closure. That, and don't waste your time wanting people who don't want you back.
The very act of breaking up with you should tell you that he isn't the right one for you and you will find someone who is better for you eventually.
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how can i stop taking out my stress on my loved ones? This has been a real problem in the past and it ultimately drove one of my best friends away. I don't want to ruin my other relationships as well. Please help. :(

First, I think it's good that you can recognize that you do this.
If it's an option for you, I'd highly suggest therapy, it's a great outlet to talk openly about your stress as well as finding ways to handle it.
I would also suggest finding an outlet. When I'm stressed or in a bad mood and I feel like Im going to snap at anyone who talks to me, I workout, or take a hot shower, or just lock myself in my room and journal.
Also, try not bottling up your feelings until you're about to explode. That can mean journalling a little everyday, or talking about something you're frustrated about. Essentially, being proactive rather then being reactive.
Hopefully some of this helps :)
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so i live with my mom and we dont get along shes always moaning at me I'm 22 and dont have a job so I cant afford to move out but im finishing university soon . My older bro lives with my dad but i dont have a room there so what shall i do? I dont wanna live here anymore shes making my life hell!

I feel you, as we get older its hard to keep living at home. I'm in the same spot where its difficult navigating living with your parents while you're an adult.
My number 1 piece of advice would be finish uni, get a job and get some savings so once you move out you're not constantly stressing about money. Don't rush out just to get away from the nagging if you still have a place at your parents house. Plus once you get a job you'll likely be out of the house a lot of the time which will hopefully ease some of the stress.
If it really becomes unbearable, finish uni, work for a month and then get a small apartment with some friends so it's still cost effective.
Good luck!
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I find if I stay inside my house, if I'm not productive, & just take on the hermit life that my anxiety becomes sky high. Do you ever feel like this too?

Definitely, I find the longer I stay in the house the higher my anxiety gets about leaving, which is why I try to get out of the house everyday, even just for a drive.
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How would you go about breaking up with someone you have to see on the daily? I made the mistake of dating a coworker and we work alone together for about 3-5 hours a day.

ooh dude thats difficult, I'm sorry you're in that position.
Well this is probably going to suck for you for a while, but I would talk to them in private, let them know I think they're wonderful but I just don't see it going any further romantically.
Work will be super awkward probably for a while, but the two of you are adults and can hopefully move past this eventually.
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Are you quite or loud when you have sex? Do you think guys should make some noise during sex? Should they dirty talk while having sex?

truly depends, i guess more on the quiet side.
As far as guy noises, some are super nice to make sure they're enjoying their time.
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My boyfriend and I are very compatible in sex and we have a great time but when we're not having sex. We're always arguing. It's like we're great in the bedroom but not so great outside of the bedroom. Could we work through this to have a long lasting relationship or do you think it won't work.

I think if you find a way to communicate that works for you, it could work. Maybe try couples therapy, its truly not just for married couples on the verge of divorce, and if you can fix these issues early on, you could have a long and healthy relationship.
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Hey Ashely, so I'm 20 and I still live at my parents house cause my university is close by, and recently my mom found condoms in desk. She confronted me and was very upset and I tried to explain that I'm 20 but she says I have to wait till marriage, which I think is extreme. What should I do?

Two parts here, its your sex life and you can do whatever you want, but it's her house, so if you're having sex maybe do it elsewhere.
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Do you prefer rough/passionate sex or slow/sensual sex? Or a perhaps a combination of both? Or does it come down to what kind of mood you are in?

depends on the mood, definitely
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Saw your bra video yesterday, and heard you were thinking about a boob job. If I may ask what size were you thinking?

Thinking of just a B or small C, just something that looks natural and fits my body shape.

Do you think there should be more kissing during sex? For example being in missionary and still making out/kissing down the neck while thrusting?

I enjoy kissing during sex personally
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Would you prefer a straight penis or a slightly bent penis? I heard that for most they prefer a slightly bent penis due to the fact that different positions can hit different spots.

I truly do not have a preference.
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Will Patreon get the new Adam & Eve video early?

No, sex toy videos don't go out early typically, but some videos are sneak peeked on Patreon
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Just curious. I watch all of your vlogs and it seems like you do your makeup almost everyday. Do you do that because you're trying to use it up or because you film or just because you like to look good? Not judging at all, just solely curious. Love your videos! Have a beautiful day!

I tend to film everyday, and on the days when I'm not filming I tend not to do makeup :)
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Do people have to pay to watch your patreon videos

Yeah so to get access to the 4 pieces of exclusive content I post every month on Patreon people pay $10/month.
It's extra content that doesn't take away anything from my youtube channels :)
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what is patreon

Its a place that people can help to support creators they like in return for perks like exclusive videos, access to private shows etc.
Its just a good way to support creators you enjoy if you can.
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Me and my boyfriend broke up around two months ago. The first month (a couple of weeks after the breakup) I hardly thought about him, but now I constantly do. Is this normal? And how do I stop thinking about him? I think it might be because I miss having a boyfriend, not particularly about him.

definitely more about missing having a boyfriend, its totally natural.
I tend to dive into other things, school or work and distract myself, or even just start going on dates and meet new people.
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Can you do more mental health videos? For example about anxiety, therapists, medication etc.

absolutely!

I always find it kinda funny how you complain so much about getting only two months of sun yet where I live were lucky if we get even one month as its virtually constant rain and wind. You're lucky that you get proper seasons

GAH dude, move that sounds horrible
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