How bad is it to fall for the wrong person?
As bad as you want it to be. Choose to let it go and its not that bad. Choose to stick to it forever and its the worst thing that can happen to you.
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What happens when your happiness is dependent on another person's happiness? Does life get easier or tougher?
Life is tough either way. I wouldn't set high expectations of people for life, based on what I've learned at least.
Life is tough in both these scenarios but when your happiness is dependent on another person, that kind of 'tough' has no solution. You are just helpless in that scenario and it leads to a lot of hopelessness and emotional drainage.
But if your happiness is dependent on yourself, then it has a solution. Maybe the solution is tough. Like maybe your happiness is dependent on the fact that you are in good shape and whatever you wear looks amazing on you. It's in your control to workout and eat good. It's still tough but it's not emotionally draining nor a hopeless situation. Just a silly example, but gets the point across. So life's tough either way, we get to choose the kind of tough we want tho.
Life is tough in both these scenarios but when your happiness is dependent on another person, that kind of 'tough' has no solution. You are just helpless in that scenario and it leads to a lot of hopelessness and emotional drainage.
But if your happiness is dependent on yourself, then it has a solution. Maybe the solution is tough. Like maybe your happiness is dependent on the fact that you are in good shape and whatever you wear looks amazing on you. It's in your control to workout and eat good. It's still tough but it's not emotionally draining nor a hopeless situation. Just a silly example, but gets the point across. So life's tough either way, we get to choose the kind of tough we want tho.
Who's in your display pic? I've seen this photo before but I can't remember where exactly?
Idk. Just a pic I found on Pinterest
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Heyy. Fastian here! How are you?
Hi. I'm good alhamdulillah. How are you?
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Do you think God does things for us or he creates chance for us to do things?
I've experienced both. At times when I needed to emotionally mature and learn a lesson, He created difficult situations for me but didn't do everything for me. He allowed me and gave me the strength to deal with it on my own so I can evolve. Then there were times when I prayed for something and it just happened 🤷🏻♀️ easily! Alhamdulillah.
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What is the biggest/worst war you have ever fought with yourself?
Really wanting something, like REAL BAD.. not getting it despite trying very hard for it and accepting that Allah didn't want it for me.
We think we can achieve everything but when you try everything in your power, for years, to achieve it and it doesn't happen...tahts when you realise that we don't hold all the superpower. It is liberating but really tough to learn.
We think we can achieve everything but when you try everything in your power, for years, to achieve it and it doesn't happen...tahts when you realise that we don't hold all the superpower. It is liberating but really tough to learn.
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Do you think the partner we choose reflects how much we love ourselves?
Absolutely!
What you're attracted to, what you let into your life and the way you allow people(your man or woman) to treat you says a lot about how much love and respect you have for yourself.
What you're attracted to, what you let into your life and the way you allow people(your man or woman) to treat you says a lot about how much love and respect you have for yourself.
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Name your biggest mistake so others don't make the same mistake.
Depending on people rather than depending on Allah. The anxiety and disappointment that comes with depending on people depleted me tbh. Then I thought that all these people are created by Allah afterall, why am I wasting my time hoping for them to love, appreciate or even 'see me' when I can expect that from their creator?
That was a mindset shift that changed my life tbh.
But it took a lot of time for me so I'd say to anyone who's reading this, people are humans.. They lack many things just like you and I, so don't hope or expect much from them. The One that created everything has everything to offer.
That was a mindset shift that changed my life tbh.
But it took a lot of time for me so I'd say to anyone who's reading this, people are humans.. They lack many things just like you and I, so don't hope or expect much from them. The One that created everything has everything to offer.
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Everyone craves attention. True or not? 🙂
Very true.
What quality of someone makes you want to become their friend?
I've never had the desire to make friends. The last time I had a real friend was probably 2013 and that too because she took interest in being my friend. I got lucky because she is and was an amazing person. After we fell apart, again haven't had the desire to have friends 😂
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What moment did you realize you are not a kid anymore?
The moment my younger brother fell severely ill and I had to step up to be the elder sis, at 4 years of age I think 🤔
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