Idk. Just a pic I found on Pinterest

Hi. I'm good alhamdulillah. How are you?

I've experienced both. At times when I needed to emotionally mature and learn a lesson, He created difficult situations for me but didn't do everything for me. He allowed me and gave me the strength to deal with it on my own so I can evolve. Then there were times when I prayed for something and it just happened 🤷🏻‍♀️ easily! Alhamdulillah.

Really wanting something, like REAL BAD.. not getting it despite trying very hard for it and accepting that Allah didn't want it for me.
We think we can achieve everything but when you try everything in your power, for years, to achieve it and it doesn't happen...tahts when you realise that we don't hold all the superpower. It is liberating but really tough to learn.

Absolutely!
What you're attracted to, what you let into your life and the way you allow people(your man or woman) to treat you says a lot about how much love and respect you have for yourself.

Depending on people rather than depending on Allah. The anxiety and disappointment that comes with depending on people depleted me tbh. Then I thought that all these people are created by Allah afterall, why am I wasting my time hoping for them to love, appreciate or even 'see me' when I can expect that from their creator?
That was a mindset shift that changed my life tbh.
But it took a lot of time for me so I'd say to anyone who's reading this, people are humans.. They lack many things just like you and I, so don't hope or expect much from them. The One that created everything has everything to offer.

Very true.

I've never had the desire to make friends. The last time I had a real friend was probably 2013 and that too because she took interest in being my friend. I got lucky because she is and was an amazing person. After we fell apart, again haven't had the desire to have friends 😂

The moment my younger brother fell severely ill and I had to step up to be the elder sis, at 4 years of age I think 🤔

I'm a pathan myself and there are no specific thoughts. 🤷🏻‍♀️We are people, we have both good and bad like every other group or ethnicity.