Will you completely shut down this site.? Still playing catchup reading prior questions. Don't delete.! I need my fix Bel. :)
A group of couples all friends one of the couples is getting divorced. The wife sends photos of recent vacation to all of us via email including our spouses emails they are nothing but skimpy bikini pics. I think it's inappropriae and should've sent to only the ladies thoughts?
I've had a few friends get divorced. in all fairness to the wife, she's in a bad place and not always thinking clearly.
Bride'smaids daughter was single when she RSVP. 2 wks b4 wedding she asks to bring new dude(destinationwedd).We had paid catering/open bar bill. I told her no extra room. She was no show. Her mom told other Bridesmaids thats why & she was in support. I am pissed my friend condoned this. Am I wrong?
But what can be done about it? The wedding is over. You're mad about something that can't be fixed.
Your friend can't be held responsible for how her grown daughter moves. Whether she agrees or not is irrelevant.
Why are u switxhing platforms??
Black people should own more, consume less. :-/
My husband doesn't make plans with me and won't tell me when he has meetings wtc after work or plans with friends -he just goes about his business or will ask me to do something the day of-is this inappropriate?
What does the 12k person get?
I'm not running a contest. I'm switching platforms. Lol.
7 more to go.
B no it's HER neighbor not my neighbor I don't know dude other than seeing him in the bundling when I go visit her. But now I'm wondering of they had eyes for each other this whole time. She mad foul for this. Broke up with me but we kept Having sex and she was seeing him too
Sir. Please leave this woman alone. You don't want her. You don't think highly of her. Your ego is just bruised now.
Asked a question on the new site almost 10 hours ago. Realized that the activity is on this site still. Kinda confused but still a fan :-)
I am currently answering questions on both sites. Even on the new site, I still won't be able to answer every question.
OP re pregnant: you're right, I think I know what's best for me right now, it's just a really frightening decision to make, thus me feeling extremely confused. Thank goodness my BF is 100% supportive through all of this.
I'm a newly wed in my 30s former boss is now good friend-she's been married 30 years and is very negative about marriage and men. I get she's been married decades longer and been thru more but it drives me batty to listen to this. Is the only option to distance myself from her?
Just for everyone reading; marriage does not mean happy. Happy means happy.
There area lot of people who are married and absolutely miserable, and who hate their husbands.
Not in re to previous q/answer: but u always ask:what is best for u?...but Is it really that simple? What's best for someone may not b the only factor. There are other things to ask ones self than "whats best for me?"
And yeah, actually, it can be that simple. If you're not willing to consider and act in your own best interest, who else will? And if you won't do, why should anyone else?
You have a spammer who is responding to questions pretending to b OP. I'm the real op of movie Q and I woukdbt respond with such nonsense
This is part of the reason I'm moving.
In that husband movie situation, am I wrong in thinking that it's the obligation of the husband to take his wife to the movies even if he doesn't like it? At least occasionally so she's not asking random men to take her. In my mind, a husband is your guaranteed date. Am I wrong in my thinking?
Belle, I'm so confused. I just finished law school & passed the bar exam. Still looking for a full time job (brutal job mkt)...I also just found out I'm pregnant. I love my BF, we are seriously discussing marriage but I just don't think I can have this baby right now!
me and hubs met new couple; cool enuf peeps. While at dinner My hubs mentioned a movie he wants to see I have to interest and the hubs of other couple hates movies period--so the wife asks my husband to go see the movie with her. I'm like hell naw! Weirdo. agree?
RE: Cant make him want you. I cognitively understand that. Problem is he literally said he keeps people on a "leash". I understand that for him to do that he selfishly does "just enough". When I ask how to fix, I mean, how do I stop feeling so embarrassed that I've been complicit in taking scraps??
Hey B I asked my ex girl would she be my valentine she laughed in my face and said we will see, we are on good terms we talk often, could you tell me from a women POV why would she do this?
Belle, I have a childhood bff I haven't talked to in yrs. she skipped my wedding because she didn't want to be there I was so hurt I distanced myself. At this point I miss the memories of our friendship but I'm not sure if I should reach out. Would it be worth getting in touch with her?
Hell yeah I told her she was insecure she's super insecure for jumping from one dude to the next and never even told me about the guy when we were still in touch
Also, dating your neighbor doesn't automatically make her insecure. Maybe he treats her better. Maybe she's dating him to piss you off. (That's petty, maybe insecure.) So she moved from one person to the next. She's single. She can date whoever she wants. Best move? Eh. Maybe, maybe not. It depends.
Please leave this woman alone. You don't want her back. You want her to want you and you're in your feelings because you ex is with someone you know.
Dating 2 guys & really like them both. I'm having trouble trying to figure out which one I'd want to be with. What do I do here? Just go with whoever asks to be exclusive first?
going with whoever asks first? This is your life. It's not a game. Be an active participant in your choices, not a bystander.
What is a guy doing if he texts u not every day but like consistently a few times a week but hasn't asked u out yet? Saving u for a rainy day? Lol
Why do I attract old men and guys I don't find attractive. I'm 23 but I always attract men in their 40s+ or men I find ugly. How can I fix this and attract the type of men I like.
Gf broke up with me bc after a yr I couldn't confirm I loved her. Few wks later she dating a neighbor. I told her I realize I do love her, want to get bk together but she's insecure for jumping to next dude so fast. She pissed and won't talk to me. How do I make it right?
did you tell her that you think she's insecure while at the same time telling her you want her back? son. you thought that would end well?