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I was living in Georgia for 2 years i had a baby in May and didn't get much support from my boyfriend's family so I moved back to Texas to be with my family. Now my boyfriend refuses to move He says he doesn't want to leave his mom, is it wrong of me to expect him to move to where he has no family.

His baby is his family. It's not an unreasonable request. If he wanted to be there, he would. He's just told you that his mom trumps you and kid.
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Hey Belle, I read your askfm regularly for entertainment and advice but I missed a few days now I am having a hard time following this spitting business I keep seeing. Should I look out for the entire run down on abelleinbrooklyn.com? I enjoy reading a lil drama lol

Most of the story is on abelleinbrooklyn.com.

LDR: he is my friend, but I don't know how to reconcile that with the disappointment of losing my lover. I dont want to be foolish and hold on to a "friendship" when i really want a relationship...

Then don't. If you feel like friendship is settling, it is.
You may change your mind down the line. But if you're pining to be with him, you're not a friend.
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Broke up with LDR. He said he considers me his best friend, but I think that is a ruse to keep me in his life without having to meet my needs romantically. I love him deeply, but I dont know what to do...

What do you consider him? That matters.
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Wrote my best guy friend a long letter detailing how I felt about him. The next day, he told me we'd talk about it later. Couple days from then, he told me he still wasn't ready to talk about it but would be soon. It's now been over a week. Safe to conclude he's not interested?

Yep.
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Belle, while I was dating my ex, I became friends with her Mom. We broke up & my ex moved away. Her Mom started calling me soon after suggesting we go out. This is kind of creepy, but I don't want to hurt nobody's feelings. I'm getting tired of lying to her when she calls.

Tell her you're flattered, but you don't think this is appropriate.
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Me, my bf & his mom went out. On the way to the car she calls out "shotgun" o_O .. I'm thinking she's joking & I head towards the front door. She said "I'm sitting here!" To avoid confrontation I got in the back. I did the right thing? What to say to my bf w/o sounding petty? Or is this childish?

You're supposed to ride on the front seat with your man. Just ask him what's up with his mom.
He should have said something to his mom. I'm guessing he isn't used to taking a woman out with his mom.
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I know you say relationships don't last when they start with infidelity but many reports show that celebs like kim/kanye, brad/angelina started while they were cheating and both seem to be standing the test of time. Are these theh small percentage of instances that work?

Are you a celeb? Then don't try to live a celebrity life.
Statistically, for "regular" relationships, relationships born out of infidelity work 5 percent of the time.
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"I try not to give up on people, would you want someone to give up on you" resonates. Haven't said more than a few words in passing to my sister in almost 2 yrs, I decided she'd threatened me for the last time. It's a pattern. Is it possible to move past this and have a relationship? If so, how?

only if she's willing to accept her wrongdoing and offer an apology. if she's still in the same mind space, it's pointless to try to build again now.
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But if you've been separated 6 years....are you really "jumping back into something?" Seems like more than long enough to be over it..... And like you just told the other person, some people just don't bother til it matters....

maybe, maybe not. the option is CLEARLY there as the guy is still married. if it's done, exit. separated means a door is still potentially open. i mean, they are married.
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A peer from high school has been starting to make contact here and there with me on social media, liking photos and statuses etc. He's working abroad right now, but he let me know he'd be back this fall (I didn't ask, he just told me). Do you think he might be interested?

yes.
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Do you think the post whom spit on her baby's dad really gets it now? or she just scared that he really may take his child from her?

their child. not hers, not his. and i dunno.
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thoughts on cosmetic plastic surgery?

your body. do what you want with it. and more important than anything, get a good surgeon.

During convo w/ guy I say I'm on my way out of door, he pleads his case but at the end he says "Now if you've found someone else then I dnt have an argument for you. I just know you'll be back bc he can't compare." Guy friends say no guy would say this to a girl he really wants. Do you agree?

Listen to the guys.
That commentary is full of ego, not interest.
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Not OP re: divorce papers. It's crazy that the only thing that motivated this man to file papers was a new woman. Isn't it a red flag to live life that sloppy ? What is the explanation for why it took this long? People should handle biz better than that. Who stays seperated for 6 yrs & thinks its OK

A lot of people, especially the elders, separate and don't divorce. Frankly, it's easier for the short-run to be in limbo. And until, you run into scenarios like this where you meet someone who balks at the arrangement.
If you're separated, you can't really build long-run with another person. I mean, you're already legally committed elsewhere.

Made the mistake of entertaining a guys pursuits at work even when I knew he had a gf cause I was caught up. I came to my senses and stopped it, a few months later decided to be friends cause we work so closely. He agreed but a week later starts ignoring and dodging me like I was doing when I ended

He doesn't want to be friends. Engaged him about work and that's it.
Oh, and there's no being friends with the guy who cheated on his GF with you. He's got communication and loyalty issues. I mean, you do too, but BOTH of y'all being screwy on those points is a bad situation.... as you're discovering.
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Dating 3 months & wanna see where guys head is. Friends say if you have to ask "what are we?" then you already have your answer since that means means the guy usually isn't giving 100%. Do you agree? I think it's worth having an actual convo instead of assuming and ending things as a first response.

Have a conversation. But wait another month.
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"Legally separated isn't single"...I get that. So you think that people shouldn't date at all until a marriage is absolutely final? Why? Just curious....Sometimes divorces take years..... people remarry the one the divorced so it can't be about them going back to their spouse.....or is it.

You're asking if I think people should date folks other than their spouse while they are married.
No.
Separated is still married. You're married and want to date others? Let that be motivation to get thru the process of divorce.
Marriage is a big deal. The end of one is a big deal (and by nearly all non-celeb accounts, emotionally and financially devastating). You don't need jump into something else right away.
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