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U say that vacation sex is pretty much a guarantee when traveling with a bf but what if that doesn't happen ever when I travel with my guy? Does that mean something is wrong with out relationship?

do you have sex when you're not on vacay? are you shutting him down on vacay (or him, you)? or does it not come up?

An ex sent me an email on FB saying he would be in my town and wanted to catch up for drink or dinner. I declined and told him that my BF and I have an understanding abt mtg 'old friends' he nor I would be comfortable. He said he understood. It was that simple. My BF does the same w/ women at work.

basically.
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I told a fwb that we should stop seeing each other because I wanted more. He didn't agree but said he'd respect it. I can't stop thinking of him, but I don't think I should back track. Any advice?

you don't think you should backtrack. i don't either.

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Was rolling solo for awhile and met a great guy. Thought I had done my 'inner work' but now I realize i'm really running from being in relationship again.(nothing to do with him) Never felt like this before but I think 2 of my past relationships did a number on me. Let him go or let him know?

if you're not ready to build with someone it doesn't matter how great he is, it won't work.
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Re six weeks: We've seen each other only four times in six weeks. I don't think it's sufficient. He thinks its fine based on schedule, etc. I am on the fense.

so he just told you that you're not going to get more out of him and about how much he's into you. are you going to deal or find someone else? you have options.

I think I'm falling in love with my FWB. He took my virginity almost 2 years ago when I was 17 ( I've been in relationships & dating since then but he remains the only person I've ever performed sexual activities with) should I end this before I get more caugh up in it? Or what... Not sure what to d

you want more so speak up and say something so you know where you stand with him.
that said, the odds aren't in your favor as it's been 2 years of just sex and nothing's come of it til now. that and you settled up front. hard to ask for more on the back end after you've already shown you don't require a commitment.

Dating for six weeks. How often should we be seeing each other?

2x a week is good. you're just dating.

The guy I'm seeing admitted that he's an ass, doesn't mean to be and although he's not Prince Charming he could do better. What does this mean? As I'm feeling a little hurt that he's conscious of his ways yet does it anyway! He often goes ghost, I've noticed he adds a lot of bigbooty girls on insta!

yeah, so why are you "seeing" him again.
he told you he's an ass, and more of less that he's not doing anything about it.
he goes AWOL.
the big booty girls on IG there's nothing to be done about at this point. he's single. he can do what he wants.
but the first two aren't red flags to you? they should be.
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How do you tell one of your best friends that her attitude is getting out of hand and it's unpleasant to speak to her because her attitude is terrible

"may i speak freely?" if she says yes, then tell her what you think.
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i understand that in relationships we each have our individual lives, but do those lives have to be secret. if i go out, guy asks all kinds of questions about what i did, he goes out and doesn't even mention it. i have learned to pick my battles but i'm annoyed. talk me off the spazledge plz

he doesn't mention it. do you ask him the way he does you?

Dating a guy. Been on 2 dates and still getting to know each other and we've become very fond of each other. It kind of irks me when I see girls all over his Instagram pics with the lovey dovey emojis anytime he posts a pic. EX: ☺️ Should I ask what that's about? It's giving me a player vibe

he's single. he acts like it and so do the women who interact with him.
it's been two dates. be easy.
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I'm happy when I'm with my bf. But when we aren't together, I start to feel maybe I should be alone or maybe I'm not good enough for him... a lot of stinkin' thinkin'. I'm seeing a therapist for other stuff, is this a red flag for me or something?

talk to your therapist about this too.

first round of texting w/ this guy since I met him. He told me I looked "faithful" and asked if I had any MALE siblings and why I was single. Im not American so maybe thats why im confused, but arent these really weird? I dont get it.

It is weird.

During the time you were dating, did you ever feel like maybe you would never meet that special person to build a life, share and marry?

That wasn't my focus. I didn't really care about getting married. In fact, didnt want to at all. Thought it would be cool to share my time with someone and have fun together though.
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Moved to a new city for job. Harder to meet guys here. Don't see them. Trying the online dating thing & the quality of men in this area = lackluster. I don't want to waste my pretty lol. Any advice on what I can do to meet people & reactivate my dating life? P.S. It was in good shape before I moved.

you're new to a city. every place has some kind of prospects. you need to give yourself time to get acclimated to your new surroundings and see where the hot spots are.
it's frustrating, but continue to explore different parts of the city and make friends who can put you on.

Not to be sarcastic but youre always rational in ya answers. For ex: the "d-head" ? You said no ones perfect which is true. How can we see that when we're in the moment? Kinda had similar situation. U said keep an eye on it. What signs to look for to tell if it'll get better/worse?

go with they do the vast majority of the time.
time tells all.
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When men find out I'm single, they often tell me they thought I was married. These may be men at church, in professional settings or in some of the same social circles. I don't wear any type of ring on my ring finger. What kind of vibe am I giving off to make people think I'm married?

you're not flirting and blocking dudes from jump like you're not interested.

Met a guy on girls' vacay. Nothing happened but we swapped info & kept in touch. After exchanging msgs for 2 months he invited me back to visit him. Hooked up but stopped short of 4th. Before i went back he'd txt how much he missed me/wanted to see me again. Now he always seems busy. What do I do?

nothing. he's lost interest if he's not making time for you.
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Lol do u ever worry your friends will read your responses when u mention them and get upset ie: the friend that copies your hairstyles. OR do your friends always kmow how u feel about them even the bad or annoying things

nah. i hang out with grown ups. we don't have silly beef problems. if there's ever an issue, i get a phone call.
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So I made this love connection (or I think it is) at church this past Sunday. He was checking for me real tough. We knew each other when we were younger but we are grown now. I have no clue on how to flirt (in real life not just with him.) I can't find him on social media, no number. Help!!

wait til you see him again... at church or wherever.

I had sex with my coworker last week. The problem was my prnis wasnt fully erect with the condom so I decided to go raw dog style without telling her. She asked me about 150 times after did I go raw. I kept telling her no. Should I tell her the truth?

uh, yes. duh!
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