I'm 21 and I feel like my relationship with my family isn't a healthy one. Problem is, I still depend on them time to time for money but they're super control, my mom has called me a "stupid bitch," on more than one occasion, etc.. If I distance myself they say I'm "stuck up." What do I do?
It isn't.
When you depend on people for money, unfortunately, putting up with their ish, even name-calling and controlling, is part of the deal.
Your best bet? Become self-sufficient and distance yourself. Let them call you "stuck up". It's better than being present and being called a "bitch." (Been there, heard that. Doesn't feel good and the sting doesn't really go away.)
When you depend on people for money, unfortunately, putting up with their ish, even name-calling and controlling, is part of the deal.
Your best bet? Become self-sufficient and distance yourself. Let them call you "stuck up". It's better than being present and being called a "bitch." (Been there, heard that. Doesn't feel good and the sting doesn't really go away.)