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hai kak,aku ingat dulu suka nonton golden girls kan? download subtitlenya (kalo pake) dimana ya, karena nyarinya susah banget.. makasih

Alya Yasmine
Gue gak pake subtitles :")
Subscene gaada?

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ah, what's up ask.fm! so, um, how's life?

I've been hospitalized with rheumatoid arthritis for nearly a week and it sucks being disabled.

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Pap sama pacar donk! :""""))))

AhRa
*yaallah pertanyaan ini 5 bulan yang lalu udah berapa kali ganti pacar*

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ask fm gaseru lg 😑 gakaya dulu ada drama selebask sekarang membosankan bgt ew :( pdhl w dlu suka bgt spam question sm selebask papan atas gtw knp sekarang jd bosen😪😔

Nanat
karena udah gaada gue AAAAHAHAHAHAHAHA

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Bagaimana laki-laki memandang keperawanan seorang wanita?

Ririn agna rianti
seperti ini

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Hi! Coba ceritakan apapun tentang orang yang kamu sayang! Have a nice day^^

BUKAN ANON KOK!
cuma mau cerita aku sayang bude jadi aku bikin ini
"Do not ask what I have given you, ask what you have given to me."
(The Fat Aunt, 2:1, Bude Sumiyati, the Tome of Amorality)

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Hello, Adit! Do you have 'unique' method to (quickly) remember something? [e.g.: Creating your own pattern/combination to remember phone number] Have a nice day! 🙏

Anggada Samira
The number of times I lose my phone or forget whether or not I've put sugar in my tea in a day alone is evidence that remembering is not my strong point!

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Halo kak! Kira kira pesan apa yang ingin kakak sampaikan untuk anak yang baru menginjak usia 17 tahun?

Theresia Carloline Cornelius
If you're going to college get ready to get fucked up. Also, state universities aren't all that jazz. No need to cry because SNMPTN/SBMPTN failed you. If it's about the tuition fee, my university, for example, provides discounts for high GPAs and many other private universities provide scholarships.

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Would you rather choose a high paid office job or a low paid adventurous job?

My definition of adventureous is travelling outside of South Jakarta, so I think I'd rather have an office job than to have difficulties finding a sitting toilet.

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Kenapa lo mengidentifikasi diri lo maaf sebagai banci ka??

kapan

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kak kapan hari ke klinik My vets ya?

Kemala Sherlin Nasher
IYA :"")
Ini karyawannya yang cantik yang duduk di meja kasir ya?

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Sepengetahuan gue, lgbt kaga dari lahir deh cuy

himura
Lho, memang tidak. Orientasi seksual adalah hasil dari interrelasi kompleks antara faktor genetik (DNA, kromosom, hormon, dll.) dan faktor lingkungan (sosialisasi primer, budaya pop, dll.) Pada dasarnya, semua orang memiliki karakteristik orientasi seksual yang berbeda karena variansi faktor faktor tersebut, contoh paling mudah dapat kita lihat dari preferensi kita terhadap pasangan soal bentuk tubuh, misalnya. Preferensi tersebut ada asal muasalnya, toh? Nah, itu hanya salah satu aspek dari aspek orientasi seksual dan romantik secara umum yang kompleks.
Cuy.
*shudders*

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Kak adit, ava nya mirip eddie redmayne di danish girl

Mayasitha Arifin
Adalah orang kesekian yang mengatakan begitu.

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Adit. Boleh minta referensi buku bacaan mengenai wanita di era victoria? Atau apapun yg feminime? Trims.

dwi rizqa
Buku soal beginian banyak, tapi gue belom pernah baca, dan kayaknya juga nggak dijual di toko toko buku. The most you could do is internet resources, love.
Try this:
http://vintagedancer.com/category/victorian/

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yey, telemindku ke adit udah konek. :)) walau badsignal. HAI ADIT SUKSES TERUS YA.

via
Kenapa sih hidupku dipenuhi dengan ukhti ukhti :")

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Hi, tell me something about your family history, where are they from? Who's the oldest ancestor you can still trace about?

Alkupra
My oldest and traceable ancestor would be N.N. Bär (unclear whether this is a female or male ancestor), who apparently had two sons named Hans and Marx in the early 1500s. Hans is my great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great grandfather (11 times), who lived in Affoltern, Zürich. It is my great-great-great-great-grandfather who came from Europe to Indonesia in the 1800s.

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The issue that comes forward is this: we cannot establish a thorough understanding of LGBTQ+ issues in Indonesia if we are so disjointed in our history. A lot of us who claim to represent the LGBTQ+ are often very different from the large majority that we claim to represent. It's likely that most of us borrowed and translated from Western ideals of LGBTQ+ activism, which isn't bad, really, but borrowing without deeply understanding the context isn't particularly effective, especially on a national level.
We do not 100% represent the opinions and views of the large majority of people spread out in the archipelago who may not have been exposed to these Western ideals. Of course, we all generally want the same thing, and that is the freedom to be ourselves, to love and to be with those that we love, but clearly, it is much more complex than that. Racism didn't end with the Civil Rights Movement, for example.
This does not mean, however, that our efforts or the efforts of people like Sucipto are futile or invalid, this simply means that we have a long way to go and other bigger issues to face. We may be not very different from the priyayi and social elites of the time of the Dutch East Indies, like Sucipto. The accounts of the natives who had the privilege of being literate and able to express themselves more freely should be treasured, no doubt, but still, this does not necessarily express the viewpoints of others, especially the less-privileged others.
For example, one claims that for centuries Indonesia has accepted gender variance because of the existence of the Bugis culture with their five genders, but before one makes that claim, to what extent does the Bugis culture influence mainstream Indonesian culture, because clearly, people from the island of Sumatra, for example, do not share the same views. The very idea of Indonesia as a unity is problematic, because each culture has unique dynamics and social structures. One can say that Bugis culture is an excellent example of indigenous LGBTQ+ culture, but to a wider scope, this claim may not be fully valid.

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Would you rather only be able to whisper or only be able to shout?

I AM ALREADY TOO LOUD
Ask.fm kenapa nyebelin amat sih udah kalo login harus diverify gue bukan robot pake muter muterin stop sign terus susah loading picture dan ngepost answer jembudh budhe goreng krispi elah

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adittt how are you this evening

Sop Ayam
Hello, I will occasionally pop in to spread any interesting information. I am doing great since I've left ask.fm. Anyway, this might be of interest to some people.
I was discussing the state of LGBTQ+ people during the time of the Dutch East Indies with a few people yesterday, because of course, a lot of us can't really picture homosexuality before our era. Indeed, we are so disjointed from our history that even between me and a 30-something gay guy, there is a chasm of differing viewpoints and linguistic repertoire. Imagine what it's like a century back or so.
http://jejakislam.net/jerat-kaum-homoseksual-di-masa-kolonial/
This article contains a few accounts (even a few from President Soekarno) regarding homosexuality during the advent of Indonesia as a nation. The author of this article writes of homosexuality as a deviance, but if you can put that aside for a while, this is quite a worthwhile read.
Apparently, there was a crackdown in 1938 in many Indonesian urban and rural areas for homosexuals and pedophiles (ironically, today, the AILA, for example, still does this). The Dutch themselves did not prohibit homosexuality explicitly in the Netherlands, and apparently they enacted the crackdown in Indonesia in relation to its understanding from within the natives' beliefs.
This was a particularly problematic thing because the people targeted were mostly European men who solicited the services of young, native Indonesian boys. The exploitation of these young boys is not separate from the colonial supremacy, regardless of the nature of the sexual exploitation. Still, this presents an issue, because homophobia has much more tangled roots than we thought in Indonesia.
The beginning of the 20th century was more or less a decadent time for the Dutch East Indies, and European gays had the privilege of being out and about, while the native Indonesians did not. With this, the perception towards homosexuality is strengthened to be likened to a Western, colonial power, unrecognized within the archipelago as something naturally occurring.
The sad fact is, one does not hear a lot of the voices of those native LGBTQ+ individuals, for their voice is the voice that matters in this issue compared to the European ones or the non-LGBTQ+ natives, and yet, of course, theirs are drowned. One precious account came from Sucipto, born in 1910, and told of his experiences throughout the last vestiges of the time of the Dutch East Indies, expressed in the book 'Gay Pilihan Jalan Hidupku: Pengakuan Seorang Gay Priyayi Jawa Zaman Penjajahan Belanda'.
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kak jijik gaksih ngeliat raisa yg nyanyi cuma ngandelin kecantikannya doang? ew padahal suaranya biasa aja bagusan suara nenek gw , sekarang dese di unfollow sama keenan di instagram dan udah putus krn keenan gakuat sama gaya idupnya dese pdhl dlu pas balikan dese yg nangis2 minta balikan wakaka

Nanat
apasih bencong hateful bener

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hello bg adit

ANON69
syp qmu

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dit nak mm?

Stefanus
SHUCK THE UP FUT

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YES YOU'RE BACK

ig : giovn.ab
take me out to dinner

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Kamu tau siapa dimaz sadewa?

Silvia Nur Azizah
Yes, he is a dear friend. A very shy and creative fellow. I wish we could talk more but he's very busy with his work.

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