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Do you prefer being single or being in a relationship?

xXCherellexX_’s Profile PhotoCherelle
While I know that being in a relationship is great because you have a companion and you really enjoy their company, but being single has its perks too. You have more freedom to do whatever you want and you aren't having to make decisions with anyone else in mind (as long as you don't have kids or anyone else you're caring for anyhow) and you can focus on improving yourself or enjoying the things you love. I personally think the smartest choice is to focus on your relationship with yourself and just wait for the right kind of person to come along and make you feel like you can have a healthy and happy relationship with them!

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do you forgive people for talking behind your back?

I recommend basing that on the nature of what they were saying and how it is affecting your life. If it's something trivial that you can overlook without much stress involved then that's one thing, but if this person is saying really nasty things about you or talking about things you shared with them in secret then you definitely need to consider another option. You might consider distancing yourself from this person or at least refraining from sharing any sensitive information with them in the future.

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Would you back up your partner if you know he or she is wrong?

StarlightVenusMars’s Profile PhotoTobi Taiwo
I think it's more important to stand up for the truth. There are other ways to support your partner than backing up their lies. I would suggest kindly correcting them, and if they can't handle being corrected then I would suggest reconsidering the relationship. Most reasonable invidiuals are able to handle constructive criticism without losing their cool... I don't think it's safe to be in a relationship with someone who is unable to do that.

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When you know somebody is using you but you really care about him so there's certain things you overlook but when they overstepped a boundary when is enough enough

To me it sounds like enough was enough long before now. You shouldn't let anyone treat you like that. You are deserving of more respect than that. I think you should let him go and find someone who treats you like a person rather than something to be used.

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How can someone fall in love again 💔

It takes time to heal your heart. It may be smart to give it the chance it needs to repair itself from the last heartbreak before you move on to something new. I would personally recommend getting involved in some hobbies or projects, or socializing with friends in the meantime. It's a great distraction and you might even meet and get to know someone awesome in the process! You could also take that time to improve on yourself and not worry about being in a relationship for a while. Regardless, I think things will fall into place for you naturally. When you're ready, you'll know. 😊

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How do you know when someone is in love with you ?

If someone who has romantic feelings for you seems dedicated to supporting you and being a part of your life, and they're respectful of and loyal to you, then it might be love. Someone who doesn't love you won't put that much time and energy into the relationship. Actions speak much louder than words in the end. Having said that, you really shouldn't assume that someone has those kinds of feelings for you unless you hear it from them directly. It wouldn't hurt to ask!

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There is a student of mine who is OBSESSED with me. She knows where I live, texts me with a phone # she found online and reposts my family photos on her social media. She also made a playlist on Spotify with love songs on it and Im the title of the playlist. Im beyond creeped out

I'm assuming you're her teacher? If so, you really want to take care of that problem before it gets out of hand. I'm not sure exactly what kind of protocols you would have to follow as someone in that position, but could you talk to someone from the staff about what's going on and see if you can have her transferred from your class? You don't want to overlook this issue until it's too late and you wind up getting a reputation or losing your job over a misunderstanding. Clear your name asap and stay away from that student for your own sake. Best of luck to you!

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Where should I call home?

eirninsmiles_’s Profile PhotoSad Panda Ernest
Home should be a safe space where you feel comfortable letting your guard down imo. Some homes are not like that unfortunately, but I think everyone deserves to have security in their own space. If your current home is toxic in any way, especially if it's really affecting your well-being, please consider looking into a healthier living situation if you can!

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So this guy from my school (classmate) was asking me and several other girls to trade you know what pics. He also had a twitter where he retweed and liked inapproriate pictures of ladies. I told the dean about this. Does this make me a snitch?

I think you did the right thing. It's inappropriate for this guy to randomly ask girls for photos like that and I'm sure many of them will appreciate you making an effort to put a stop to it. Anyone who calls you a snitch over that sort of thing probably enables harassment within their circle anyway.

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My husband ex “gf” is constantly stalking us and stalking our kids school Facebook page!! She is such a sick individual

I would recommend getting a restraining order against her if possible, and reaching out to your school to let them know what's happening and to make sure your kids stay safe. Make sure your kids are aware that they shouldn't go anywhere with her if she tries to pick them up. It's really concerning that she's stalking their school's page.

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