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My best friend just had sex with his girlfriend (w/o a condom bc she told him she was on birth control) & now he's asking me for money to buy condoms. I want to help him out & I don't want him to have sex w/o a condom again, but I don't like the girl at all, and I don't want to help her out. advice?

umm well i think you should lend him some money? i mean like you're not doing it for the girl, you're doing it for your friend. because well if she got pregnant or something, your friend will have responsibility too. and well he could lend money from someone else so better you, his friend, give it to him, i think. sorry for late reply
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Thank you so much for the advice! It really helped! :)

No need. you're so welcomed. i'm glad it did help x
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So I'm a bisexual girl and I really like one of my best friends who is also a girl. She knows I'm bi and I'd really like to ask her out, but I'm afraid that if I get rejected that she would treat me differently and we wouldn't really be friends anymore. Do you think I should go for it or not?

well if she's bisexual or she's into girls, i think you should really tell her, maybe she likes you too, you will never know unless you tell her so don't waste more time when you two can be together! don't miss this chance because you will regret not doing this sooner or later, because you will never know her reaction, and you would wish you have told her, so just tell her and be honest with her and tell her how you feel about her and just let it all out, if she likes you too then that's a good thing, if she doesn't like you then politely respect that and respect her request and feelings and just ask her to forget all about it and everything you said and to let things go back to normal, explain to her that you don't want anything to change about your friendship and you would like to remain friends just like you were before and tell her that she'll always be your best friend no matter what even if she doesn't like you that way, so if she doesn't like you or is straight and isn't into girls then just try to move on and get over it, it's just not meant to be, she isn't your one, and if you were destined to be together, she would have liked you too. but if she doesn't then she isn't the right person for you. you will find someone else and someone even better and you'll love him/her the most and you will be glad that your friend didn't like you that way so you can meet that right person and don't waste time with someone who isn't your one. good luck and sorry for late reply x
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Hey, I wanna get a gift for my boyfriend that is small (able to fit in my pocket.) but nice, any suggestions?

well, it really depends on his interests and what he likes, so you should see what he's interested in and get him something related, you can get him something like a mini stuffed animal or any cute toy, cute key chain, phone cover (you can also print something on them), cool earphones, gift card for itunes or anything, bracelet, necklace, piercing rings or any accessories (if he wears those things), a wallet, you can also get him a small notebook and fill it with cute stuff, like write how you feel about him, how does he make you feel, what do you love about him, your favourite memories together, or you can also get each one of his friends and you to write down what they want in a page of their own, a watch, a fun card games for couples, twin stuff, you can make him something out of your own creativity like a dream catcher to hang it above his bed or something cute,buy tickets for his favourite band's concert or his favourite sport game and go together. you don't also have to buy him something your gift can be a surprise, you can do something for him like write him a really long love letter, go on a picnic, cook his favourite meal for him or bake him something cute, mini scrapbook, make him a motivational bundle write your favourite quotes and things to motivate him and love stuff on pieces of cards and tie them together, do something new, fun and crazy together that he always wanted to do and i'm sure if you just walked in a gift shop and took a look you would find alot of suitable and nice things to get him, you can also ask him or know what he wants from him in an indirect way or make someone ask him. x
i'm sorry for late reply
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I want to lose 10 kg im 140 pounds, 164cm and 14. really fat and bulky :( - my response to the makeover question -

i don't know what question is this related to, but you're not fat at all. not in a single way you could be fat. your bmi is only 23.6, normal weight extends to 24.9 so your weight is perfectly normal and fine. you don't need to lose weight at all. you're perfect and beautiful the way you are.Don't let anyone or anything make you think different. you're just the right weight, you don't need to change anything about yourself x
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Chemo ATM what shall I do I can't talk to girls about it x

i'm really sorry i don't really understand what you mean x
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How come the other two are never on?x

i don't really know what happened to them because i don't really know them or talk to them. but maybe they're just busy. i hope they're fine x
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I found out my boyfriend had a porn addiction by going through his history.. I also found out he's smiled weed in the past so that's 2 things he's lied about.. This happened 3 months ago and I'm still so heartbroken.. I need advice..

well i think you should forgive him, but it's really up to you, if you can't really stand lying, but it's not a really big deal the things he lied about. no one is perfect, everyone makes mistakes. although he should have been honest about his mistakes but maybe he just couldn't tell you because he didn't want to lose you or he was afraid of your reaction and he didn't want you to be upset. just ask him to be honest with you and show him he won't lose you with honesty and telling you everything and make him promise you he won't lie again, give him a second chance and see what will he do. if he lied again, you can leave him then because that would be a different matter then. but just everyone deserves a second chance, people can change, and to the better. he just probably didn't want to sound as a bad person. and maybe he didn't want to bring the weed thing up because it's the past as you said and he's already over it so he thought why would he tell you. but in the end to leave him or to stay it's really up to you. that was just my opinion, lying can be justified sometimes to me. talk to him into it and hear his point of view and let him explain and you two get to a solution together, i'm sure you can sort things out. good luck x
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I just can't do this anymore

why? what's wrong? i'm here if you want to talk about it but please just stay strong. you can do it just believe in yourself, alot of people believe in you including me! alot of people love you and care about you and i care alot! you're stronger than you think you are, please don't give up. never. you cqn do alot of things but the last thing is to give up. you have alot to live for, you can just leave all that and all the people who love you. everything will get better i promise, nothing lasts forever and everything will turn out perfectly fine and it will all fall in the right place. it's not all good but it's also not all bad. everything happens for a reason and it will make sense later, everything you have been through made you the amazing, gorgeous, strong person you are. please don't give up your life. you're wanted and needed here. you can kik me anytime x
and i'm extremely sorry for late reply x
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you should work on replying quicker, that's some advice for you

well thank you but but i'm so sorry i haven't been on this account in like forever due to personal issues, and the questions box is so full, i swear i'm trying my best to answer all the questions because i don't want to just give short insufficient answers, i'm trying to answer as many questions as i can! i'm so sorry again to everyone for the late replies. i really am x
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Hey, this is a page to ask questions, so anyone could come to this page for dailg questions. Sorry for the promotion, i just think it would be fun!! Thank u, and i love your page btw, it helps many people

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go follow her! and no need. thank you x
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Hii can you please write a long message for an ex boyfriend!? please? Hate message or someting like that? Pleaseeee? :) tbh you are cute may god bless you and may all your wishes come true ! :)

um well thank you but i'm so sorry i just can't write someone a hate message for you. it's rude and mean and i'm not like that, i'm sorry. you shouldn't hate on someone no matter what they have done. they're still human too. if you want to write him a message to blame him or something or talk about how he hurt you or your break up, then it should be coming out from you, it should be your true feelings, no one should write it for you because they just aren't you and this isn't their life or business and not in your situation or place. so it should be honest and you should just write how you feel about it and let it all out. but i say you should just move on, and get over him and get him totally out of your life, just forget about him and focus more on your life and the important things to you, and don't waste your time on that, it's past now, you'll find someone better. x
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(c) to want to talk about it but I don’t want to sound like a weirdo or as im forcing him because I don’t want to force him into talking about things he isn’t ready to talk about... he has talked about it with me before so I don’t see it being a problem but this feeling is so annoying and I just

there's totally nothing wrong with talking to him about it, it's a part of the relationship, just talk to him into it and tell him how you feel and be honest with him, and tell him what you want, ask him if he's ready for it or not, you won't be forcing him into it, tell him it's okay if he doesn't want to talk about it. you won't sound like a weirdo. he's your boyfriend, and this is totally normal. it shouldn't be awkward or anything if you love each other. you should be able to sort things out with each other. you never know, maybe he wants to talk about it too just as much as you want to, he probably does but maybe he's shy or thinking the same as you. just ask him, it's as simple, and if he isn't ready or doesn't want to, just respect him and his feelings and tell him it's fine and by time, it will develop. good luck x
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Recently I have been feeling a bit sexually frustrated... im in a relationship with someone who lives quite far away from me and it sucks because I can't do any of the things that I want to do even tho i want to so badly.. We’ve talked about it for a while before but I'm feeling the need to want to

Answered on second part x
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I'm sorry for the recent hate that been sent to everyone on ask who we follow. I haven't been on for a while and when I got this question I knew something was happening again. I have changed my password to the page. Sorry if need to talk about it Kik me Lucyplank sorry again - Lucy xox

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no need to be sorry. i don't think we got anything, it's all good x
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