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What would you define as cheating ?

Franky Singh
Well, when I think of steroids I think of an image. You have the advantage over someone, which is a form of cheating. I guess it wouldn't be right unless it was legal for everybody. Reason it's not legal for everybody is because it can hurt people seriously. I feel like everyone has been in a bitter situation, regardless whether it's cheating or just not being over someone who is over you - you just compare yourself to the next. Often, when cheating happens, we rush to place blame solely on one person - either the person who did the cheating, or more insidiously, if it happened to us, we blame ourselves for not being 'good enough' to keep them around. But putting it all on one person doesn't paint the entire picture. The more people rationalize cheating, the more it becomes a culture of dishonesty. And that can become a vicious, downward cycle. Because suddenly, if everyone else is cheating, you feel a need to cheat, too.

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HAVE YOU EVER MADE A DECISION THAT CHANGED YOUR ENTIRE LIFE? IF SO, WHAT WAS IT?

Prateek Raja
I adore myself. I am complete.
I'll never compare myself to anyone.
I'll teach myself a lot of things till there is nothing left unlearnt.
I'll eat healthy.
Comfort comes first.
The ability to feel gratitude is supreme.
Ill learn from my mistakes. I shall not repeat the same mistakes again.
I shall work hard to improve myself. Everyday.
Self assessment at the end of the day is important.
Boundaries: Make yours, respect others.

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Have you ever faced a fatal accident? Then got a rebirth? Well, once I was a victim of auto accident. Then after healing through the operation I lost the power of spining a cricket ball by my left hand.

Shouryo Chakraborty
I have never met with any serious accident in my life. Wish it doesn't happens with anyone!
But I was born with an Esophageal atresia defect in which part of my windpipe (esophagus) (the swallowing tube that connects the mouth to the stomach) could not develop properly.
And therefore, as a baby I was unable to pass food from the mouth to the stomach (Feeding always caused choking or vomiting), and sometimes I would suffer difficulty breathing.
According to the doctors, babies born with esophageal atresia have one or more additional birth defects,and so apart from this defect, I have hypothermia as well in which my body loses heat faster than it can produce heat, and it deliberately results in a dangerously low body temperature, but I don't catch fever/ body temperature at all.
Although I was diagnosed with all these problems but still at the age of 18 I suffer from this defect.
I can not eat faster as it results in choking, frequent hiccups and difficulty breathing. Also, I can not bear with winters and direct air (AC, Cooler, Speed air fans, etc) in summers too due to hypothermia which causes me to shiever, body aches, difficulty breathing, running nose, etc.

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Narendra Modi or Rahul Gandhi?

Owais Khurshid Bhat
Let's not talk about whom to vote.
Let's just think of whom to be remembered.
Whom not to be forgotten.
Remember the ones who made you stand in long queue for months in banks, for your own money.
Remember the ones who made you feel that this country is not safe for people in your religion.
The ones who made you feel that having certain food of your choice is not anymore safe in this land.
Forget not the ones who made the womenfolk feel that they are 'impure'.
Remember the ones who made you feel that even the high secure defence documents can be stolen.
Remember the ones who's still talking about building statues and not development.
Forget not the ones who cry whenever u question their vices.
The ones who call you a traitor whenever you question their policy decisions.
Remember the ones who has not kept a single of their promises.! (Blackmoney, Ram mandir, 2 crores jobs, farmers issue, etc)
Remember who let the billion dollar frauds leave the country unquestioned, and who made small loanees commit suicide for their inability to repay.
Forget not the ones who spent around 5000 crores for advertisements alone.
Remember the ones who has not given a press conference during last 5 years but had time to attend an uninvited birthday party at another country.
Now think it yourselves who might be a better choice. Narendra Modi or Rahul Gandhi?

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🌺Happiness for you is.....?

Payal Subrata
I was 14 when I first got the opportunity to write an exam for a blind girl. I had to read the questions and write answers for her. After the exam, she hugged me and said "Shukriya didi" (Thanks for the help sister). I asked her about her result day and promised to meet her again on that day. After a week, while coming back from my school, I decided to visit her and ask her result. As she saw me coming, a tear rolled down her eyes. She was ranked 5th in the class, she hugged me and offered me a sweet. It was the best feeling of the world.
True happiness comes from helping others!

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What worries you the most?

Deepali
I neither have the list nor any plans to list my worries out. Some things in life are just there to make us strong and weak from time to time. You just have to sail through it.
Life never comes with a manual and so we all have the liberty to experiment with life. No set of rules and regulations are there for anyone to make their life rosy and merry. Worries are like thrones and part of our desired rosy life. So it's up to us what we are exactly looking for in our own life, rose or thorn.
Thinking about PAST, PRESENT & FUTURE while not taking any action only increases the worries related to any kind of prevailing situation, person, job, life and other unknown and unlisted things. Life is really too short to think about past, present and future. So, before you completely lose your self without doing anything, take the charge of your life and situations. We are not trees, so move and explore, do not get stuck anywhere. Keep moving till your last breath
Before we close our dreamy eyes one day, let's do some action and release all our wanted and unwanted worries.
Worrying will never change the outcome!

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💝

Aafia ❤
I believe that there is always a constant chase, for reaching the next goal.
Most people start small, right from the childhood - getting good grades, reaching the next class, excelling in a sport, reaching a level in a video-game. Though some of us are more carefree in this age.
As we grow, the goals become bigger, we want to get into good colleges, have a high paying job, own a car, own a house, have an even higher paying job to support a better lifestyle, good education for the kids, an early retirement.
The point is, that as soon as we achieve a goal, the time for celebration does not last for long and the next goal is set which is bigger and more grueling.
While we are busy chasing it, we tend to forget the more important things in life - health, healthy relationships, family, hobbies, passions, relaxations and just enjoying the small pleasures of life.
When the important things are ignored, they become the reasons to worry about - health issues, loneliness, problems in family life, job frustration and dissatisfaction. People try to escape these problems/worries temporarily by chasing the next higher goal.
Though, chasing goals and exceeding yourself if exemplary, but one must never forget to appreciate the important things in life. And like this life can be close to a smooth sail.

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What is the best thing about you??💕

tanuuuzzz❤
No matter how badly you hurt me, I won't ever wish anything bad to happen to you.
No matter how sad I may be, I will try my best to put on a smile and make others laugh if I see them sad.
I care like a true friend and a mother. If you are my friend, nothing will stop me to take care of you. I might not talk to you daily but I will be available if you need me ever.
I don't gossip about others like others do. I respect the privacy of others.
I let go of people who have hurt me. I don't seek revenge because I know that it will hurt me.
I respect opinions of others. Sure, I debate but I also keep my respect intact.
I don't think less of others' problems. I respect the fact that everyone is going through something and we shouldn't judge a book we haven't read.
I don't impress anyone by styling. I am who I am. I want people to love me for the person I am inside.
Despite having faced a lot of difficulties in life, I have an incredible zest for life.
I sacrifice many things for others without actually telling them and expecting anything in return.
I don't lose hope in life and that's one of the best things about me.

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Random thought? 💭

Jon Snow❆
Is it my fault that I am denied?
Even before I see the world!
I am killed and thrown aside.
Is it my fault that I am assaulted every day?
Inside the walls of what you’d call a home!
I am mercilessly left to my dismay.
Is it my fault that I am told?
Not to wear decent clothes!
When they do not care to rape an eight year old.
It is not my fault but of those women
Who choose to teach their daughters “how not to get raped’
Instead of teaching their very dear sons “why not to rape”.
It is not my fault but of those people
Who so shamelessly ignored my screams;
When every tear of mine shouted for help,
When I was shattered and smashed to smithereens.
It is not my fault but of those men
Who touched me when they saw me alone;
Without thinking even once that they too had a sister, daughter and a mother back home.
But now I will, like a phoenix,
Rise bravely from my own ashes.
Convert my tears into surging tides which would proclaim loudly to the masses.
That it is not my fault,
That it is not always my fault.
In spite of the increasing awareness, female foetecide, domestic violence and rape cases form a major part of the newspaper and we are still held responsible for it.
Therefore, it is upon us that we show the society that it is their fault too.

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Proud Indian?

I’m a proud citizen of India, but not a proud resident. India is a country that is expected to dominate the world in the coming years considering how young our nation is. Yet, despite all this our country has some major flaws that we have to be ashamed of and we need to raise our voice against these issues. Being a democratic nation where everyone is supposed to be considered equal and treated equally we still have the reservation system which is very ironical and contradictory to the very own preamble of ours which states “EQUALITY of status and of opportunity”, where citizens are not given opportunity based on their merit but given based on their so called caste or backwardness. This reservation system in turn creates inferiority complex among the so called backward people who face discrimination at the time of availing their ‘right’ in a subtle and a sarcastic manner. Instead of having a caste based reservation system we should rather have an economical based reservation system, where citizens would be segregated based on their financial situation rather than the so called pre-independence sects they’ve been divided into based on their then occupations. Recently the government has introduced the economical based reservation system but which is yet another game, as on one hand people earning more than 2.5 lakhs annually are liable to pay income tax but regards the families who earn 8 lakh as the ‘economically weak’; most of the people who fall under the category of the economically weak also are supposed to pay income taxes.
With a population of over 1.3 billion people the revenue from taxes should be far more than what we have today, as only 1.7% have paid income taxes in (2015-2016).Whereas the income tax collected has gone from 1.91 lakh crores in FY (14-15) to 1.88 lakh crores FY (15-16). We’re a country where getting away with taxes is easier than getting away from driving without a license.

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When you felt the most proud?

SuperGirl
The brave heart took a great challenge to fight against an other country.
They started it all; they killed our people,
but then it was time to unveil the face of our true Hero,Abhinandan.
It was a battle on the sky, a huge battle.
Such an unfortunate that he ended up landing on the ground of the opposition country,
where he was caught and beaten up.
Just because he was an Indian and belonged to the Indian Air Force?
He tried all possible ways, ran on all the four directions;
Not to save himself but to safeguard all the confidential documents he had with him.
He tried swallowing a few, but caught in hands of horrific people.
His hands were tied, eyes were blindfolded, and face dripping with blood and sweat,
It did break the hearts of every Indian,
to see our own human in extreme grievance.
The worry we Indians had was multifarious.
He wouldn’t be aware of what was going on, where has he been trapped, or under whom.
Our hearts were drenched in pain and soreness.
But he survived the agony, and in no way his face expressed it.
The courageous heart had the politeness, the same melodious tone of voice, and the bravery to go through it.
Can someone do this much to save their country?
Like a Lion amongst snakes.
But then after we heard that he’s safe and returning back to his Mother Nation,
we felt happiness beyond miles.
We love you,Sir.
You wipped off the empathy we had on you and replaced it with huge proud.
I’m so glad to say that I live in the country whereWing. Commander. Abhinandan resides.
He is finally back.
Proud of him!
Love and Peace.

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❤️

mohamed elsayed
A heart touching story:
A son took his old father to a restaurant for an evening dinner.
Father being very old and weak, while eating, dropped food on his shirt and trousers. Other diners watched him in disgust while his son was calm.
After he finished eating, his son who was not at all embarrassed, quietly took him to the restroom, washed off all the food particles, removed the stains, combed his hair and fitted his spectacles firmly.
When they came out, the entire restaurant was watching them in dead silence, not able to grasp how could someone could embarrass themselves publicly like that.
The son settled the bill and started walking out with his father.
At that point, an old man amongst the diner called out to the son and asked him,
"Don't you think you've left something behind?"
The son replied,
"No sir, I haven't."
The old man retorted,
"Yes, you have. You left a lesson for every son and hope for every father."
The whole restaurant went silent.
To care for those who once cared for us is one of the highest honors.

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Why 11 is eleven and not onety-one?

Priya ✨
Well, I think you wanted it to be a humorous question, but, it really isn't! It's an interesting question though.
11 is ‘eleven’ for prehistoric reasons. Englishhas inherited some words fromGermanwhich is the common ancestor of English and its own close relatives.
The origin goes back into proto-Germanic counting, but in Old English it was often spelt ‘Endleofen’, literally meaning ‘one left’, i.e., one left over ten or totaling one more than ten (10+1). Presumably because you’d just run out of fingers before you got to eleven.
We do not call eleven as onety one because we add numbers to 10 to form numbers more than 10, as discussed above.
However, Ty in the end is a suffix used to denote/ refer to the specified groups of ten when multiplied to the number 10, i.e., 10x2 = twenty, etc. (Multiples of ten)
Therefore, Onety one is 10 itself and not 11. You may find results over the Internet as 11 being known as onety one but it's actually a name given to different groups under which we keep adding different numbers 1,2,3,.....9 to complete the group, individually.
Also the prefix for the numbers from 1 to 9 along with the suffix TY was decided to be:
One+ty - 10
Two+ty - 20
Third+ty - 30
Four+ty - 40
And so on....
However,nobody else can ever logically explain how a language has evolved as there are many factors involved that took place way before our existence. I have had partially studied this in vedic maths therefore I know all this.

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What was the last book you read without skipping through anything?

Muhammad Tahir
Pages - 288.
Storyline- This is a story of a girl who committed suicide and leaves 13 tapes behind as a note for who were the 13 people responsible for her suicide.
Hannah Baker killed herself, after being disappointed from the society. After being used by her so called friends, after listening to all the lies and dirty rumors about her. After trying hard not to quit her life. She killed herself, after giving many hints to people, after trying her hardest to live, after supplicating someone to save her, she found no one and killed herself.
There was not one big reason behind her action, it was all small reasons, stick together, became a cloud and took her life.
After reading this book, you may find some of her reasons are not worthy of suicide, because people look for a clear cut reason to accept suicide, you may think that some of the reasons was not big enough to take one's life, but NO! we have no right to decide which reasons are strong enough to make us quit on our life. Perhaps the thing that does not matter to us, leaves deepest mark on someone's life.
After reading this novel I'm in constant thought of how many Hannah Baker lives in our society, struggling with their life, with their own thoughts, feeling empty, wanting to stop the world, looking for a tiny hope to survive, giving hints to people, so that they could help, and people having no idea what is going in their mind.
So today let's pledge to never overlook any of the hint given by any another Hannah Baker, never judge someone on what you have heard about them from maximum of crowd. Let's give our best word of encouragement to depressed and quiet one around, be careful on how we treat people, you never know how it will affect them. Let's study all the symptoms of mental health and God forbid if we ever found any of them in any person around us. Let's do everything that we could, to help them deal with it and overcome it.

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WHAT TIME OF THE DAY DO YOU FEEL THE MOST ENERGETIC AND WHAT DO YOU USUALLY DO IN THOSE MOMENTS?

Prateek Raja
I’m a night person, so I love the quietness after 11pm, that's when I do my best writing. My most passionate writings, my most beautiful love scenes, my most fierce battles happen at that witching hour.
In a way, darkness is my friend. Free from being bothered by friends and family, out of work, I’m free to just let my imagination thrive.

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What came to your realisation lately?

Jon Snow❆
Love is a transient feeling. It fades with time and mood.
Your problems are gossip and “timepass” for EVERYONE even your bestfriend. The only people who actually care are your parents. No one else. Not even your siblings. Eg. If you fail an exam, your relatives may only sympathize with you, your parents are the ones who will actually face headache and look for solutions.
The key to happiness is acceptance. If your girlfriend or boyfriend dumped you or cheated on you, accept it wasn’t meant to be. Accept that someone more worthy is meant to be in your life. Pity them and move on.
Bad terrifying breakups are a blessing. You will ONLY realise it after couple of years of having broken up with someone you really loved. Breakups change your whole perspective and make you mature.
There is nothing wrong. There is nothing right. There are only consequences.
Life is about perspective. As i said theres nothing wrong and theres nothing right. Eg. You tell a soldier killing people is wrong, he won’t care about your opinion. Everyone functions as per their own perspective.
The main cause of misery in life is having association with negative people. If you are surrounded with positive and like minded people the chances of you being depressed reduces exponentially.
Life begins after no contact. If you are dealing with someone toxic (eg. Ex gf/bf)
Being friends with an ex who dumped you will only cause more pain. Cause the day they get a new partner, guess what, they will dump you again. That will hurt you more.
There's no talent here. I am obsessed with. If you think of it, work for it, dream about it, talk about it, do everything based on that one thing you want - the universe will make sure you get it. Feel it in your blood. Without saying, work to your best off towards it.
Time heals EVERYTHING, but only if you let it. So when something bad happens, be optimistic about the future.
With most emotional bonds which don't work out. Strange fact: you start off as strangers

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An advice you actually payed attention to?

Accept the moment for what it is!
Most of our troubles are due to our passionate desire for and attachment to things that we misapprehend as enduring entities. We pin our happiness to people, circumstances, and things and hold onto them for dear life. We stress about the possibility of losing them when something seems amiss. Then we melt into grief when something changes ; a lay off, a breakup, or a transfer. In trying to hold on to what’s familiar, we limit our ability to experience joy in the present. A moment can’t possibly radiate fully when you’re suffocating it in fear.
When you stop trying to grasp, own, and control the world around you, you give it the freedom to fulfill you without the power to destroy you. That’s why letting go is so important ; letting go is letting happiness in.
Stop running after people or things. Let go off the the desire for everything you don’t have. No, you won’t always get exactly what you want, but remember this: There are lots of people who will never have what you have right now. The things you take for granted, someone else is praying for. Happiness never comes to those who don’t appreciate what they already have. So stop complaining , stop comparing yourself to everyone else. Social comparison is the thief of happiness. You could spend a lifetime worrying about what others have, but it wouldn’t get you anything.
Accept the moment for what it is. Don’t try to turn it into yesterday; that moment’s gone. Don’t plot about how you can make the moment last forever. Just seep into the moment and enjoy it, because it will eventually pass. Nothing is permanent. Fighting that reality will only cause you pain. Believe now is enough. It’s true ; tomorrow may not look the same as today, no matter how much you try to control it. A relationship might end. You might have to move. You’ll deal with those moments when they come. All you need right now is to appreciate and enjoy what you have. It’s enough.

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Say something that could make anyone smile.👀

Sαgαr.
Never be defined by your past. It was a lesson, not a life sentence. Let go of the guilt that keeps you chained to the past.
Letting go gives you freedom, whereas guilt will consume you. Excess guilt is one of the heaviest and unhealthiest weights a person can hold. It’s like strapping an extra 100+ pounds to your forehead and trying to go about your day.
Fortunately, just as a change in how you approach your body can help shed excess body weight, i.e. eating healthy and exercising, a change in how you approach your thoughts can help you shed excess guilt.
If you feel like you’re carrying around excess guilt right now, let go and ease your mind. There’s no reason to feel perpetually guilty for making a sincere mistake. Don’t get weighed down by living life consumed by the past. Be present in the moment.
Accept the mistakes and let go. Breathe deeply and release all the stress and worries, and move on. Focus and create new positive beliefs and thoughts. Realize that no one is perfect. To make a mistake is to be human.
Mistakes are part of life ; everyone makes them, and everyone feels a little guilty sometimes. But some people learn from their mistakes and some end up making the same ones again and again. It’s up to you to decide if you’ll learn from your mistakes and use them to your advantage. So breathe and let go.
We can change the past that is behind us, but we can still make the best use of today and everyday going forward. We just have to let the guilt remind us to do better next time. Time and practice will always be your healer.
Just be patient and never give up! Love,

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What thing do you love that everyone else hates ?

Abubakar Naeem
Consistency.
I eat the same thing for lunch nearly every day. I know people who say they could never do anything like that. They couldn’t live without the variety.
There are two reasons I keep doing it anyway:
I like it the way it is. I wouldn’t eat the same thing every day if I didn’t enjoy it. I don’t see any reason to change what I do when I like it perfectly well.
Variety has hidden costs. The mental load of deciding what to eat for lunch every day doesn’t seem like much. But every time I see seven people debate what to eat for ten minutes, I’m reminded of how happy I am that I never have to make that decision. I eat what I eat. I made that decision long ago, and it’s been saving me valuable mental energy ever since.
Variety is a luxury. It’s very recent in that we’re able to have variety of any kind in our lives. Most humans who have ever lived ate whatever was nearby every day. Every day they did the same thing they did yesterday.
I like being able tochooseconsistency in the places it makes sense. It means I get more enjoyment out of the incredible variety our world has to offer.

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Post something for your followers

SuperGirl
Hello followers!
Most importantly, I am happy that you enjoyed my answers. A debt of gratitude is in order for all the thankfulness messages on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat and Ask.fm of course.
I began writing on this platform somewhere in the range of just 1 year maybe, but after a log gap, in these few days I got a decent cluster of followers. I am gaining such a great amount of an attention from you. I have tried to write helpful, informative answers and sometimes show a flair of my writing skills as well.
I was experiencing a tragedy however now I am feeling cheerful on the grounds that I got such a significant number of companions.
Dear supporters, much obliged for being the piece of my life when one a player in my life left me for another person. Whatever I can state is that your subsequent event to perusing my writings, I feel overpowered. I didn't realize that I can write great. Much appreciated folks for persuading me to do great. I have enormous love for all of you.
In the span of these few days, I got some great people as my followers. Thanks all for following me.
What's more, one thing I need to state to sprouting askers and it is that:
Try not to keep running behind preferences, supporters, remarks, you require no approvals.
Ask yourself? For what reason do I write?
In the event that it's not for your own heart,
Not for your tranquility,
Possibly, it's the wrong way
You're treading,
Possibly' I said.
**Build your own stronghold with your own particular blocks. Keep in mind forget, you're more than the way you look.**
Lots of Love ❤️

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How many hours maximum you can study without any interruption?

Shouryo Chakraborty
What you are asking is counter-productive.
The "secret" to studying efficiently and effectively is not putting in long hours a day.
I believe in using the application of a slew of smart study strategies, including test/ exam preparations.
My optimal study period in one continuous stretch is 2 hours, but this has to be broken down into four equal segments of 25 minutes of studying and 5 minutes of taking a break, allocated for each time segment.
The scientific rationale behind this initiative accordingly is to garner higher incidence of what learning psychologists call it as 'Primacy Effect' and 'Recency Effect'.
As learners, we tend to remember well what's in the beginning and what's at the end of the endeavour.
To follow this schedule you need to extend the 2-hours stretch, you can have another 2-hours block schedule to follow, but make sure you have an extended break of say 20 minutes or so.
But do not skip this schedule or you may forget everything. After you are done with studying for a day, start answering a test series which you can prepare while you have been studying through the subject.
Also, I tend to prepare for a weekly test series which I think is the actual outcome of what I have been studying since a week.
Again once you are done with a subject, purchase/ download sample papers through market/ internet and start answering it for you monthly report about how far you've reached.
In this way, you'll fetch better results than actually studying for longer durations. As, studying for longer duration causes degradation of your mental health as you keep on forcing yourself to study while, actually you aren't ready for it.
Follow my simple formula. Best of luck!

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What's the one thing most people don't know about you?

SuperGirl
I'm not an easy person to be with. I know that I probably won't even try to make it easy for anyone. l'll be really difficult at times. It may seem like I avoid people. I'll be a challenge because I'm not the type of person people walk all over. I'm not the type of person that puts up with bullshit. I'm not the type of person that will go with the flow. When I say something, I mean it. People find me quite annoying and hilarious at times because they say I'm out of this world. Yes, I write too much but out of anyone's expectations. My words are worth reading/following believe me or not. Despite this, people hate my guts. But even though that's all going to happen, and I swear it will, I have an amazing side to me. I have a huge heart, it's just been broken too many times. I'll always be there when anyone needs me, I promise. Even if my life is on the verge of breaking down, I'll try to repair others by listening and loving. I won't stop caring about anyone, even if anyone pushes me away. I claim that I'm different from everyone else and I like being that. Honestly I just need all of you, to see all of me for who I am and who I can be.

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