Of course. Tell me which girl wouldn't fantasize about her dream guy? Some define dream guy as 100% PERFECT. But it's actually almost impossible. I've a whole list but I'll just list out some points of what I look out for in my guy (Subject to changes and not in order)
1) MUST be a guy - Like duhhh.... (I'm absolutely straight and will not settle for anything else)
2) SENSE OF SECURITY- He must be able to give me that and I can feel absolutely safe even though I go home late at night. He need not send me home everyday (cause I don't exactly see a need to) but just a simple text of concern would suffice.
3) Gentleman - It's really rare nowadays to find guys who opens the door for ladies (I know what you're probably gonna think now - "Can't you just open the freaking door yourself??") and says thank you for nearly everything, even to the extent of greeting cleaners/bus drivers. But if he does that - It'll be a added bonus maybe?
4) ACCEPTANCE - He must accept me for who I am and how my family is like. Sounds really weird I know. But I don't like it when I see a guy carries handbag for the ladies (like I mean ladies carry your own bag if you think you're gonna bring it out)
Also I don't like him to pay for my meals unless its on special occasions maybe? Because I don't understand what's the reason behind guys must pay for the ladies. Independence ladies!
Another fact is that he has to accept he will never be ranked as my number 1 man of my life because he's irreplaceable.
5) A FRIEND AND A LOVER - It'd be better if we can communicate not just as friends but as lovers? I think that's what makes the relationship even more interesting! I don't like to be too clingy to him. I don't think he likes it either. So why not just respect our own circle of friends and give each other some breathing space?
I think as a couple it's important that we trust each other and communicate a lot cause communication is key! You need not text each other 24/7. Just a simple Good Morning and Goodnight text is good enough - At least you know he/she is safe and sound at home ((:
Of course I'm in no position to say that much since I've never fallen in love but I think how the relationship turns out is very much dependent on the parties themselves!
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