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I love my boyfriend very much and I know he is ready to take the next step (sex). But I am still not ready and I don't know how to talk to him about this exactly. Any advice?

Honestly, just be straight with him, but if you can, try and do so face to face, or at least on the telephone, so you can hear each other’s voices/read each other’s tone.
I had a similar situation and the fact that we were both under a lot of stress in our lives anyway and it was communicated via text, combined with we hadn’t seen each other for ages, it just went down really badly and we majorly misunderstood the other - it was just miscommunication issues, as opposed to not being compatible/not having a good connection.
Once everything came clear and was rectified via actually speaking to each other in person, it solved a lot of issues. It caused a lot of upset in between though, which is why I’m stressing to try and do this in person, via FaceTime or anything like that.
If he’s the right one for you, he’ll understand and not pressure you.
I know it’s daunting, believe me, I felt the same way. But if you have a good connection, it’s worth battling through that discomfort for. Just be honest with him - say that you love him very much, you’re just not quite ready to take that step, but it’s not a reflection of how you feel for him in any way. Most decent guys will be okay and understanding of that. Some may get a bruised ego for a bit, but they’ll get over that and prioritise you being okay first :)

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What do you advise me to do when having depression naps, Livi?

Look after yourself. Do a meditation maybe, it doesn’t have to be anything intense - I listen to calm music (look for “binaural beats”, the frequencies are designed to help relax the body, particularly ‘theta waves’. YouTube is a great resource for that! If you’re interested, I can shoot you across a YouTube link I’ve made of saved music and meditation to listen to :)
Or, simply just focus on your breath work, as deep breathing will help calm the mind. I’ve always been the sceptical type, but I can’t stress enough how much it really does help, especially in combination with the above!
That and doing gentle stretches with the yoga helps too - yet again, it’s nothing intense as I’m about as flexible as a hard piece of wood, but it does help! (This is more so in general as opposed to naps).
I hope this helps a little, take care of yourself 🤗

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What do you advise me to do when having depression naps Livi
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You know, as my head minion you are contractually obliged to bring up the subject if cake as often as possible. I wouldn't want the HR department being upset with you. HR is just a furious ferret 😂👍

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I see, my most sincere apologies Boss, I shall learn from my mistakes! The threat of dealing with HR sounds most... intimidating 😅🤣
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any advice on how to heal from a break up and have to watch your ex move on with someone else while you still feel stuck?

It can be really difficult and heartbreaking, but allow yourself to feel those emotions, and acknowledge that it won’t last forever. Any kind of hurt, whether it be physical or emotional, needs a recovery stage, so don’t worry about not feeling peachy so soon after a break up.
The main thing I can suggest is to do things that make you happy. Take yourself out on a date, indulge in things that make you happy, learn something new or pick up a new hobby. Anything that will give you a sense of happiness abs confidence, even for just that moment of time. If it works, keep doing it. Eventually, the pain will become less raw, and you’ll start to feel like yourself again. :)
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What is your best memory from University life so far?

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I’m not sure if there’s one particular memory that stands out the most. I think it’s mostly just a feeling that comes to mind; the one of finally feeling at home, particularly during the last two years there.
Maybe that’s also symbolic of me coming into my own as a person as well as an artist, and that finally, I had tutors who seemed to like me and my art, who actively encouraged and supported me. Having really lovely peers to study with made all the difference, too. Having a campus settled in nature, seeing dog walkers outside the window and being surrounded by cherry blossoms just uplifted the spirit. Walking through the park everyday to campus with my headphones in or simply just listening to the sounds around me, was incredibly calming. The campus had a really chill “art school vibe”, you could literally feel the buzz of creativity in the air.
I know it’ll sound sad, but I really miss it. Despite the aggro and stresses that come with uni, those last two years were probably the happiest of my life so far. It felt like home :)

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Could you please advise me what to do in life?

That’s an awful lot of pressure! 😅
I’ll try to help to the best of my ability. All I can really offer, is always stay true to yourself, and as corny as it sounds, but never give up on your dreams. If you truly care about something, it’s worth pursuing, even if others may assume otherwise.
I’m not sure if you had a specific q in mind, but that’s just what came to mind first :)
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