If you knew that in one year you would d!e suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
I'll make a bucket list, visit some places, watch some movies, eat some food I never tried before, play some games, have quality time with my family and probably kiss someone I value.
How do you feel about your relationship with your mother? (Sorry if this question is a bit personal)
It used to be complex. But even then it was sometimes enjoyable, supportive and even comfortable, sometimes full of pure rage and hatred. But we both are trying and connecting and I think we succeeded and are doing better now. But, I always cared for her even through my anger and complaints and I'll keep doing so.
How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s? (Again, sorry if this question is too personal to you, no need to answer) 🤗
No, my childhood was worse than most people. I wasn't lucky enough to have a healthy one. But, I'd say that's no reason to not try to connect with my existing family now. People have shortcomings and our parents are no different. I have opened up few of my sufferings and complaints and I think, now I have closer relationship with my family then before. I guess in a sense we grew up together after opening up and now we understand each other better and somewhat reaching out to mend the damage. When we are kids we probably don't know a lot about the world or living but if you are the first child it also means your parents had no previous experiences in parenting. So, sometimes they mess up and keep repeating it unless someone makes them understand what they did wrong.
Nice question tbh, I took my time answering it. Healthy flirting just being thoughtful, giving attention to others to make then feel good about themselves and sincere, it doesn't have ulterior motives like you want to get them laid or something. Unhealthily flirt doesn't respect your consent, sounds fake and forced, doesn't care if it makes you uncomfortable, keeps being pushy and forceful, doesn't respect your boundaries and probably has ulterior motives.