Ask @ayeitssyd:

did you like your bf when you met him or did you just start liking him this year???

Nah, I always had a thing for him but the timing never really panned out for us until this year. I'm happy about it though because I feel like I appreciate it so much more after imagining what it would be like to be with him for so long, I don't know haha. He's really great and unique. There's just something about him that I've always found fascinating and attractive… I can't really explain it.

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how did you meet your bf

They have this thing at Akron called "New Roo Weekend" where they basically just show a bunch of freshman around and have a bunch of talks about how to be successful in college blah blah blah. I was sitting alone at one of those talks and he was sitting like two chairs away from me (I spaced it out so that I wasn't directly next to anyone and would feel less awkward). I was hoping that no one would talk to me so that I wouldn't have to deal with my anxiety or feeling weird or having to come up with some way to keep a conversation going, then he leaned over toward me and said, "aye what up, I'm Matt" in this super dorky way haha and it made me laugh and then he started talking to me and we spent the rest of the day sitting next to each other at all of the activities and whatnot. We even missed one of the things and lost our group because we were eating lunch and took way longer than everyone else hahaha. I was having a shitty time and he made it so much better and easier for me.

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that sucks... you were so great together

You know, I'm getting kind of sick of hearing this from everyone. I respect peoples' opinions that we were great for each other and we were a cute couple or whatever else I've heard from people in the past few months... But what it boils down to is that Bryan is an AMAZING guy, he just isn't the right guy for me. And I feel like everyone just needs to accept that just because we get along really well and he's a sweet guy doesn't mean that there is the right kind of spark there or that we should be romantically involved. I love Bryan, he's a wonderful person and someday he's going to meet the right girl and he'll understand why we needed to break up. I want nothing but the best for him, but I need to watch out for my own happiness as well. If you want to judge me for putting myself first for once so that I can be happy with the life that I have and make the most of it, that frankly says a lot more about you than it does about me. less than a minute ago

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