Sigmund Freud once said, Emotions which cannot be expressed, never die, are buried alive, and then reappear in ugly ways.
Read the books of June, Parveen, Wasi, and other Urdu poets. If you analyze Google's statistics, Pakistan will be one of the countries where pornography is the most popular. Even if you travel from Khyber to Karachi, even if the woman is passing by wearing a shuttlecock burqa, the men around her will keep staring at her until she turns the corner of the street and disappears from sight. You can talk to anyone and see, after every two sentences, there will be insults on the genitals of mother and sister. If you listen to the statements of religious preachers and scholars, they will have shed light on the size of the ups and downs of better maidens. You will also see Pakistani dramas, novels, digests, movies, this love affair, and will be revolving around love affairs. You should also read the newspaper every day and see if someone has abused the BB or if someone has abused the BB, little children, even the honor of the corpses in the grave will not be found safe.You won't find any mention of science documentaries, life on Mars, or robots, no discussion of Nietzsche, Russell, Einstein, or philosophy. Imagine that the film Jinnah on Quaid-e-Azam was made by a British production house, and the Kingdom of Heaven film by Salahuddin Ayubi was made by Hollywood. We have never been able to get Quaid-e-Azam, Allama Iqbal, to make a film or documentary on our history that we can present to the world beyond pride. We put ban on Hollywood movies, but in the name of stage dramas, nothing else was shown.
Imagine for a second you were transposed into the karmic driven world of Earl. Make a car, bank balance, so that when the youth is over, then the thought of marriage, that is, the virgin who is more than half her age, keeps wandering. The burden of dowry on girls is different. If it is a recognized fact that sexual gratification is a basic human need, and unless this basic human need is met, man cannot concentrate fully on other creative works, he suffers from mental disorders. Why refuse to believe?How long will we continue to produce poets, lunatics, madmen, and grieving generations instead of Newton, Einstein, Bill Gates? How long are we going to force young people to spend two out of four days of life wishing and waiting for the other two days? What science of the world, what psychology of the world, would call this society right? Who are we trying to deceive? Who are we trying to lie to? What kind of system of life is this where the expression and fulfillment of basic human needs is restricted? When all the doors of truth and truthfulness are closed, then everything is still there, but under the guise of hypocrisy, every person claims to be an angel And no human being can be found even by searching.
Freud said, "Emotions that cannot be expressed, never die, are buried alive, and then reappear in ugly ways."

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Today at midnight, I don’t know why my pen was willing to write a passage of emotions. It may be because of facing a lot of hindrances to touch the rose of destination or due to receiving ‘gifts’ of sorrows and grief from the beloveds. So, I started thinking about what to write. I was very confused as to which quality either bad or good is common in all humans.
I couldn’t decide but one thing that came to my mind was that humans are naturally greedy. Then, besides this, which other quality is common to all? Time went on passing by but my pen wasn’t ready to write anything on the philosophy of human psychology. So, I used it for scratching my head and went to bed.
Finally, night doffed its veil and with a glowing face, a sun rose. I got up and after taking tea, started to find out the answer to the question that kept me perplexed the night before.
I kept on pondering but couldn’t get my answer. But, one day, when I was coming home at night, suddenly I felt the fear as nothing was around me.
This was my eureka moment, and I got my answer! My thought journey continued and it dawned on me that it is due to fear that other qualities — good or bad — grow up. We tell lies out of fear. A person thinks he hid the reality but he unknowingly opens hundreds of new questions in which he himself will be trapped. A child tells lies to his parents and teachers. Why? Just out of fear. Another such trait is jealousy which develops in the psyche of a person.
It too emanates from fear. You may not agree to my assertion but an example would make it as clear as crystal. If a person moves forward in life and treads the path to prosperity, another will be jealous of him just because he has his own fear of going backwards.
Another question which came to my mind was: what are the hardest works to do? One may feel that for a man who doesn’t take any interest in anything, everything will be hard. But, in reality, providing justice, making decisions and shouldering responsibility are the hardest things to do in the world.
All of these are inter-related phenomena. Before providing justice and taking responsibility, a man would take a decision on doing it. On every point of life, in every minute and in every second, a person has to make decisions. Then, why it is so hard a task? Here again the main culprit is fear; fear that this decision may not be beneficial in future.
Tolerance, compromise and encouraging others are the most coveted qualities in a human being. By tolerating the jibes and taunts of others, you will be able to know who actually is yours and you will be away from thousands of worries. By compromising on some things in life, you will be ideal personality for others.
I sum up my thoughts by famous saying, “Correction does much, but encouragement does more.”

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