Ask @BenjaminNicholas:

What's a silly thing that used to scare you as a kid?

Rules. And as an adult, they still do.
I've been breaking them ever since :)

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Favorite way to top? Favorite way to bottom?

If I'm fucking someone, I like tagging them from behind. If they want me to fuck until I cum, I definitely want a guy on his back so he can watch my load spray all over him. I just have to be careful not to hit eyes, nose, etc.
Bottoming: If I can't find a sling, which for a tall, muscular guy like me is the perfect position to take a nice, long fuck, I'm good being on my back, on the edge of the bed (or a bathroom counter), getting pounded.

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Any fun pics to share here?

Funny you should ask...

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So, how old are you REALLY?

The question that many have speculated an answer, but very few know for sure.
The real question is, how old do I look? Based on the answers I get to that, I like sticking with 32. It suits me without overachieving.

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Where is the scarcest place you have ever traveled to?

Branson, MS.
You don't know true fear until you've watched a castoff Osmond trying to entertain an auditorium full of half-asleep octogenarians.

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How far in advance do you prefer to plan?

For the bulk of my travel career, I've booked at least a month in advance. Summertime is always worse, which leads to sending out a lot of 'I'm sorry, I can't' emails, as well as making sure that guys I've seen for many years don't take it personally.
Right now, I'm already booking well into December.

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Which superstition do you believe to be true?

If you wear white after Labor Day, you will be mercilessly mocked on social media

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Where do you shop the most?

At the heart of me, I'm a shorts and tank top kinda guy. Sure, I have have to dress up when I travel, but at home, it's a rare day that I'm not spending the day shirtless.
Shirts piss me off. Always have.
Topman has some great tanks and shorter-inseam shorts. They are built to take a good amount of abuse and they don't fade or break down when you do things like wash them in hot water. It's tough to find shorts that fit mid to upper thigh on guys now, but for those of us who actively do squats, why the hell shouldn't we show them off?

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Did I see you coming out of Equinox last week in Noho?

Yep. Was working out at the Bond St club for a few days.
Cruisiest fucking locker room I've ever been in. Didn't hook up with anyone, but did give some of the thirstier guys a show from the showers.
Convenient how provided conditioner makes for perfect lube :)

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Would you rather buy expensive clothes or expensive shoes?

Neither, really.
But if I had to pick one... Clothing. I can manage to take care of expensive clothing better than shoes. I'm hell on shoes. Always have been.
In an alternate reality, I'd love to own a pair of nice white designer sneakers that actually stay white for more than the first couple wearings.
#DareToDream

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Current lube of choice?

Crisco.
... But that's only because it's Sunday and I'm in the mood for chicken & waffles.

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What is your favorite brand of underwear and cologne ?

I used to have really strong opinions on underwear, but now it's basically anything that fits me well and looks good crumpled up when I take them off.
Cologne: I'm accustomed to not wearing any. A lot of guys are scent-sensitive and the last thing I want to do is show up smelling like a French whore. Too many men need a class in how to apply cologne without dousing themselves. A scent should only be noticeable when you're a foot or less away from someone.

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Which celebrity never deserved to be popular?

Lauren Hutton.
Her teeth were ugly. 'Character' my ass.

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What's one thing about the gay community that turns you off?

Lately, it's that we're all beginning to assimilate and look the same.
This new generation of gay men are some of the most boring, conservative, un-worldly guys I've had the displeasure of being around. They remind me that when parents raise children who are never told they're wrong, they grow up into complete shitheads. #TrueStory

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KEEP THE HAIR RED. IT'S BEAUTIFUL!

Thanks, I will.

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What are you wearing right now?

As usual, very little

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How to get a girl to notice you ?

That's not really in my wheelhouse, but I'd say that confidence is the number one thing that tends to attract people.
Beauty is fine, but it's fleeting. Confidence and intellect never age badly.

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Ever been to Club Dallas?

Yup, and they have one of the better bath gyms I've been to. It's not up there with Steamworks in Chicago, but it's pretty complete.
They used to offer a gym membership, but discontinued that not too long ago. Now, they make everyone rent a locker and have bumped up the price. The struggle for baths to survive in a Millennial world is a very real thing. It's clear that most of them are owned by people with no grasp of internet marketing, graphic design or creative thinking. It's a big reason why they continue to die off.
But look at a company like Steamworks: Beautiful clubs, great social media presence, strong advertising and they continue to attract a wide variety of guys. Clearly, if you have smart minds running the show, a bathhouse can continue to do well in today's age.

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Do you plan on getting an OnlyFans page?

smexy14
Nope.
Looks like another chincy way to charge people for minimal content. This strikes me in the same way guys in gay porn try to monetize everything about themselves (selling jocks, cum, time, cam, etc). Tacky as all fuck. It makes you look like a beggar.
If you use marketing smarts to present the right image, you'll never need to sell dirty clothing or useless website memberships to make a great living.

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You've alluded to having X pics or video on the web in the past. Any hints for those of us into easter egg hunting?

It's mostly video, mostly jerk-off stuff and the common bond in all of it are huge money shots.
Now, where it's at... Other people have emailed me my own videos, so I know they're findable. They're hosted at a few amatuer upload sites.

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What is your attitude to smoking?

... If you see me smoking, I damn well better be on fire

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In your post on the new BelAmi model, what do you mean by teaching him to "fuck properly"?

The BelAmi star machine is a simple, yet effective one: Find a relatively handsome young guy, put him on a regime of gym time and winstrol, fix his smile with a decent set of veneers, get him tan (but not overly so).
Bingo bango! A star is born (er, created).
What you cannot fix is their inability to look like they're enjoying fucking or getting fucked by another guy. I find if you just concentrate on the body or the dick, it works for menial jerkoff material. Most of BelAmi's scenes are about as exciting as switching from dryer sheets to liquid fabric softener.
Negating almost everything I've just been critical about, I'd watch nearly anything with Kris Evans in it. While he's a little overbuilt now that he's into competition bodybuilding, his physique (and his dick) are beautiful.

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What is the first thing you do after waking up?

I always drink a full bottle of room temp water immediately after waking up.
It helps the body jump start, gets hydration into your system and is generally a good thing for refreshing a machine that's been running dry for the last 7-10 hours.

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What is the biggest challenge you are facing right now?

Have you ever found a pair of shorts (or a cut) that fits perfectly? Well, I did and they were Hollister's 'chill fit' shorts. I bought them in every color when they were out a few years ago, expecting them to be discontinued at some point.
The closest thing I can compare them to are old-school '80s OP shorts: 4" inseam, hugs the body, has a little bit of flex in the fabric so you can move or workout in them. The sit just below the waist. Sexy fucking shorts (and comfortable).
Of course Hollister only had them for one season. All the straight guys who shop there probably didn't have the confidence or the muscular legs to pull them off, so they didn't sell very well.
Short story long- I'm wearing my supply out. Washing them to death. Wearing them to death. It's a bummer... And my current challenge in life. It could be worse.
A pic of one of my favorite pair (plaid):

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It's fun getting to see a glimpse into your very interesting life. Any big regrets so far?

I very well may regret laying out on this hotel carpeting if this room has bed bugs

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