Ask @BenjaminNicholas:

Advice to new guys coming into the industry?

Branding is everything.
Having people dislike you means you're doing something right: Let the foolish do some free advertising for you.
Take care of yourself: Gym, skincare, sleep. No drugs. No steroids. Get on PrEP. Respect yourself enough to realize you're going to need your body later in life.
Save. Invest. Watch and emulate those in your life who have been most successful.

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I hear all these escorts complaining about losing business or having to drop their rate. Why do you think that is?

I don't know if there's a cure-all, magic answer to this: If you don't cultivate a loyal long term clientele early on, you're going to lose money as you get older. That's a fact.
Many of the gents who openly grouse about not making the right money are those who focused on the wrong selling points early on in their escort career. If you brand yourself as an hourly fling, that's how guys are forever going to see you. The internet has a long memory... You can't easily change people's perception.
Point blank: If you can't make a living from this, it's time to move on. Find something else in life.

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body shot pleeeeeeeeeese!

Gotcha. Will this do?

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Are grammar and punctuation important in social media?

#Wha?

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Been to any baths lately?

Yep, and based on the guys in the place, all looking to get down to a hot fuck, it felt like old times. No bullshit. No pretense. It was the antithesis of what Grindr has become.
Walk in, get naked, bust a nut (or two, or three). Simple.
The memorable part of the night came when a really compact (5'5"), handsome and tight-bodied Asian guy asked politely if he could fuck me.
How could I turn down such a gentleman?
He couldn't have had his dick inside of me for more than 45 seconds before he blew his load. He apologized repeatedly, but I took it as a compliment. If he found me hot enough to bust a nut in less than a solid minute, I must be doing something right. LOL.

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Which countries have you visited?

Out of 195 countries, I've been to a little less than 2/3 of them.
There are a ton of little countries that are totally off my radar that I'd love to see. I've been doing a lot more personal travel in the last year, so I'm slowly working to cross some of those places off my list.

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What's always in your bag?

SPF 55. A Mont Blanc pen. Passport. Rhoto eyedrops.

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What's one thing you deeply regret?

Not buying a Fleshjack earlier in life.

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Do you change your appearance for repeat clients? For example, if you know Client A likes your hair long and you always see him in September, do you start growing it out in July? Or if Client B likes you blonde, do you dye before your regular appointment in May?

Nope... I change my look because I'm easily bored.
I've been growing my hair out for nearly a year now and am just about to the point of going back to a barber-cut. I forgot how much maintenance it is having it.
I actually have to COMB IT. Would you believe that? :)

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Anyone you've wanted to work with that you haven't yet?

Kayden Gray, but as coincidence would have it, I'm going to be doing a night with him and a client when I'm in London next month.
He's got a beautiful cock, but I've been wanting to fuck him for a long time.

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Most fun fuck lately?

Weekend trip to Savannah and I found a really hot little muscle otter who was wanting to be dominated by tall, muscular guy.
He was ass up when I got to his place. Spent a good 20 minutes eating his hole. My cock was literally dripping precum at the point I stuffed it in him. He took it like a champ, pounding him in about three positions for the next 30 minutes.
He then took me by the hand and we went outside to his side yard, where he wanted it from behind in full street view. I used the top of his fence as leverage to really pound into him. He kept asking for my load in his ass, but I ended up pulling out, forcing him to his knees and making him swallow it.
I'd say it was worth the 12 block walk from my hotel.

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You never smile!!!!!

That's not completely true: I never usually smile in online photos...
But because you used so many exclamation points, here is a pic of my smiling. Enjoy.

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What's a silly thing that used to scare you as a kid?

Rules. And as an adult, they still do.
I've been breaking them ever since :)

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Favorite way to top? Favorite way to bottom?

If I'm fucking someone, I like tagging them from behind. If they want me to fuck until I cum, I definitely want a guy on his back so he can watch my load spray all over him. I just have to be careful not to hit eyes, nose, etc.
Bottoming: If I can't find a sling, which for a tall, muscular guy like me is the perfect position to take a nice, long fuck, I'm good being on my back, on the edge of the bed (or a bathroom counter), getting pounded.

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Any fun pics to share here?

Funny you should ask...

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So, how old are you REALLY?

The question that many have speculated an answer, but very few know for sure.
The real question is, how old do I look? Based on the answers I get to that, I like sticking with 32. It suits me without overachieving.

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Where is the scarcest place you have ever traveled to?

Branson, MS.
You don't know true fear until you've watched a castoff Osmond trying to entertain an auditorium full of half-asleep octogenarians.

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How far in advance do you prefer to plan?

For the bulk of my travel career, I've booked at least a month in advance. Summertime is always worse, which leads to sending out a lot of 'I'm sorry, I can't' emails, as well as making sure that guys I've seen for many years don't take it personally.
Right now, I'm already booking well into December.

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Which superstition do you believe to be true?

If you wear white after Labor Day, you will be mercilessly mocked on social media

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Where do you shop the most?

At the heart of me, I'm a shorts and tank top kinda guy. Sure, I have have to dress up when I travel, but at home, it's a rare day that I'm not spending the day shirtless.
Shirts piss me off. Always have.
Topman has some great tanks and shorter-inseam shorts. They are built to take a good amount of abuse and they don't fade or break down when you do things like wash them in hot water. It's tough to find shorts that fit mid to upper thigh on guys now, but for those of us who actively do squats, why the hell shouldn't we show them off?

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Did I see you coming out of Equinox last week in Noho?

Yep. Was working out at the Bond St club for a few days.
Cruisiest fucking locker room I've ever been in. Didn't hook up with anyone, but did give some of the thirstier guys a show from the showers.
Convenient how provided conditioner makes for perfect lube :)

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Would you rather buy expensive clothes or expensive shoes?

Neither, really.
But if I had to pick one... Clothing. I can manage to take care of expensive clothing better than shoes. I'm hell on shoes. Always have been.
In an alternate reality, I'd love to own a pair of nice white designer sneakers that actually stay white for more than the first couple wearings.
#DareToDream

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Current lube of choice?

Crisco.
... But that's only because it's Sunday and I'm in the mood for chicken & waffles.

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What is your favorite brand of underwear and cologne ?

I used to have really strong opinions on underwear, but now it's basically anything that fits me well and looks good crumpled up when I take them off.
Cologne: I'm accustomed to not wearing any. A lot of guys are scent-sensitive and the last thing I want to do is show up smelling like a French whore. Too many men need a class in how to apply cologne without dousing themselves. A scent should only be noticeable when you're a foot or less away from someone.

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Which celebrity never deserved to be popular?

Lauren Hutton.
Her teeth were ugly. 'Character' my ass.

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