Ask @BenjaminNicholas:

LOVE the shaved head. Super alpha looking. Are you finding that guys approach you differently with the new haircut?

Yep.
Having a Marine 'high and tight' cut feel like a homing beacon for bottoms looking to get fucked. Seriously...
For me, it was a choice of convenience. I'm doing a lot of warm weather traveling this summer and want to be comfortable and efficient. Aside from having to work the SPF into my shaved head, it's a pretty awesome feeling not dealing with hair.

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Having fun on Fire Island? Any specific reason you're there (work or play?)

This trip is for relaxation and scoping out a house that I might end up buying in the near future.
As much as I like the idea of Fire Island, the more time I spend here, the more it comes across as just a smaller, equally as pretentious version of Chelsea in Manhattan. The proverbial dick measuring game is in full force here at all times and no one seems to be all that interested in smiling or being friendly. I did have more fun in Cherry Grove, where guys actually talked back when you told them good morning.
Ultimately, there's a lot of transfer NYC bullshit on this beautiful little island and that's unfortunate.

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What's the biggest impulse purchase you've had serious remorse over?

An expensive vehicle that was paid for by just writing a check.
$80k+ and I only kept it for three months before really taking time to figure out what car suited me best. I got my money out of it, but it was a valuable lesson about doing one's homework when spending large amount of money.

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If you could only keep five possessions, what would they be?

I don't think I have five possessions that mean so much to me that I'd have to have them.
Most of the material objects in my life are nice, but in the end, they're just stuff. I can live without all of it. These things don't define me.
People I can't do without: My friends are my family. Those relationships are things I wouldn't give up, ever.

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Any action in Malibu?

Not really the purpose of the trip for me.
Having a solo, relaxed stay. Not to say that I'm a monk while I'm here, but not playing the Grindr game either. Have enjoyed spending the days mostly naked, on and off a private beach, getting a little color and jacking off while outside in the sunshine (one of my odd fetishes).

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Love you with that marine haircut. 'High and tight' looks hot on you!!!

Gracias. Keeping it this way for at least the summer. For being so short, it's actually a pretty high maintenance cut... If you don't keep the skin fade clean, the whole thing starts to look messy in about a week.
Luckily, I got a barber who's got mad skills.

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What could be your reasons for discontinuing friendship with a person?

I don't have a huge circle of close friends, but I'd consider general distrust as a huge factor in keeping someone around.
Needy personalities are also tough for me to handle on a very regular basis. I don't mind glad-handing people now and then, but as a regular, everyday thing, it's tiring. Low maintenance is my kind of life.

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Would you ever sell videos?

No. I've had plenty of offers to work in porn, but selling off my image to someone else is never going to happen.
OnlyFans and the other self-publish sites are overproducing a ton of crap product and charging people in their hope of seeing something hot. Those sites will eventually eat each other and no one will end up making a worthwhile amount of money. A lot of work for little profit.
At this point in my life, I have a strong small circle of clientele, a travel schedule I enjoy and enough time on the back-end to have some sense of a real social life. Balance. It's nice.

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Do you use travel agents at all? I'm guessing not.

Not traditional agents, but I do use Amex's FHR program and Virtuoso. They are great with upgrades, finding the right airfares and maintaining good relationships with top hotel properties.
Travel agents seem nearly useless now, unless you're into taking cruises. Even Disney has become easy to self-book and figure out. If you're doing truly high-end travel (Abercrombie & Kent, jet charters, etc), there are still agents out there who can get you some nice perks with that.

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What's on your mind atm???

Finalizing a birthday trip to Fire Island.
Buying a ton of high SPF for the couple of weeks I'm spending in Hawaii.
Useless stress over closing on a condo in Mexico.
A slight feeling of dread that I signed up for an early morning class at Barry's Bootcamp.
Freedom over the fact that I just decided to go with a 'high and tight' Marines haircut for summertime.
Curiosity if all the natural vitamin supplements I take (10+ a day) are actually doing anything for me.

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Do you play a musical instrument?

I can sight read well enough to play piano, but I wouldn't call myself a 'good' player. I'd like to take lessons and get better.
That would require buying a piano. The thought of owning something that heavy doesn't appeal to me: You just have to lug it with you when you leave (or sell it). A keyboard makes more sense, but I've never liked the way they feel or sound.

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