Usually when you're in love with someone or falling in love with them, I think you're still learning about them too. You have that connection, that chemistry, that made you fall for them and want to be with them, but there is still things you are learning throughout the course of your relationship. You learn what bothers them, how they communicate, what they value, what their dreams/aspirations are, how they treat others, and sometimes those things will clash with yours. It doesn't make your love any less true. You just need to learn how to "love" this person in an individual way. If they're an introvert, you need to be understanding when they need alone time, or if they're really needy, you need to make an effort to try to text and message them more, etc. When you feel like you're compromising too much just to love this person, maybe the relationship isn't worth it. But hopefully the relationship is worth it, and although the journey has struggles and trials, the whole time you keep in mind who you are fighting for and why it's worth it. I think love is having such a powerful connection with someone that trials are something you are willing and able to face for them.

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You can't make someone like you back, for you can only wish and hope it will happen. People often think that the way to a guy's heart is looking pretty or acting over confident and using much flirtation or acting as a seductress. For some greedy or perverted men, that might be the case. Honestly, doing that will only make the man lust after you, not have actual feelings. When I like a girl, I may never even approach her. I'm simply one of those people that admire from afar, try and be in the same room or eye distance of her, and hope for a miracle. But, everyone is different of course. If you already know the guy, then it should be simpler. Be yourself, talk to him, or engage in conversation, don't act too obsessive or don't try too hard, just be calm and act how you would around any other individual, don't try to change yourself or go out of your way/comfort zone to impress or get him to like you. If he's someone that doesn't know you well, and you're a person that's confident and can actually talk to others without freaking out, then simply walk up to him and talk to him. Introduce yourself in a normal way and get to know him. Again, don't act crazy or try and act like someone else, just be yourself, talk about different things, and use common sense. There's a chance that he won't feel the same way, but there's also a chance he will. You can't force him to be into you, all you can do is hope for the best, be yourself, don't act like someone else, talk to him a lot, get to know him etc.

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Cutting for curiosity is horrendous. I often try to understand why some people see it as a joke or nothing, simply because they don't know the feelings, but I still seem to get frustrated with humanity and their thoughts toward that subject. I'm someone who doesn't cut yet, but I fear one day that my depression will become uncontrollable, I'll snap, and won't be able to get out of it. When people cut, they don't do it for attention, nor do they do it for hobby, people cut to forget the pain of their depression or lives. When people cut, it's like their numbing the pain, it's like slicing the razor across their skin is better than feeling the emotions and thoughts they feel. Cutting is something done commonly now, simply because depression is often common as well. People see cuts and laugh at the person, calling them "emo" "freaks" "attention-seekers" etc. For that is not true, and it makes someone cut even more. Cutting is symbolism for pain or horrible lives, and it's certainly not something to be laughed at or done just for the fun of it, it's a serious matter that people do when they believe physical pain is better than their feelings or life, it's something that often takes one's life, and it's something they can't get out of. Cutting is like an addiction, once someone starts, they can't stop. They feel that it's an escape, and the pain from the razor feels numb, because the pain of their life and emotion is overwhelming. If someone cuts just to see what it's like, of course they won't see the big deal, or why people do it, simply because they're not feeling what the depressed person is feeling, they're not experiencing the emotional and mental pain of thoughts and sadness, they're not experiencing the life others have. Cutting is something misjudged and misinterpreted, for people need to understand and know of why people actually cut, and the actual point of doing so. They think that it will take away the pain, they think that it's better than what they're feeling. They're so depressed and emotionally done that they see no other option, they're so distressed that hatred and sadness consumes them, and they cut without control. Cutting eases pain in an ironic way, and people who cut think of it as helping or curing them, and part of them wants to let cutting take their life. People who cut often deal with self hatred or anorexia, for they hate their body and in their mind, they believe the cuts will makes everything better. You can't truly understand why one cuts unless you are inside their head, or you experience the emotions and feelings they have. You won't truly know until you do it yourself, but not for curiosity, but to ease and take away the pain. Cutting is misunderstood, but it's a serious thing that kills people often and can ruin lives, and it's often horrible to think that people do it just for fun or curiosity.

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If someone left you because of your past, it means they don't accept you, or your past intimidates them, or they simply don't think it's a good idea to stay with you. The reason for their leaving because of your past depends on who you are, who they are, and what it was that drove them away. It should be actually easy to get over someone that left you and didn't care to stay simply because of something that happened in the past. You'll most likely be heart broken and angry that they left you, and will feel betrayed. You have to tell yourself that they didn't accept you, and that you're glad they're gone. A relationship cannot be healthy if the companion doesn't accept you or your past, it simply means they're not right for you, and you have to move on and wait for someone better. If one left because of the past, they most likely didn't care about you as much as you think they did, you have to realize that they weren't right for you, and they don't deserve you. Moving on is the best option.

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This question is something many people ask, and it's something many people struggle with. Once you like or love someone, you unlock a feeling that takes much time to disappear. The longer you like/love them, the longer it take one to get over someone. For someone may be able to move on, get in another relationship, or simply try and stop thinking about the person. But, the feelings may still be there, taunting you in the back of your mind, keeping you awake at night, making you miss them dearly. Feelings take time to go away, and sometimes they may disappear often, but come back days or months later, sneaking up and surprising you. To stop liking someone, you simply have to put your mind into the problem. Whatever made you want to stop liking them, hold on to that reason, and tell yourself that you don't need them, give yourself a reason to not want to be with them. Whenever you look at them, or think of their being, train yourself to not feel love or attraction, but to feel nothing. Tell yourself that there's no reason to like them, or convince yourself you don't want them anymore. For different people, it take a variety of ways to get over someone. Some may move on within days, and some may take months, you just have to figure out what type of person you are, and what way works best for you. For instance; lets say the person has unrequited feelings. If that's so, you must tell yourself that it can never be, and that he doesn't feel the same way towards you. Try to make yourself believe that it will never happen. Or, if you broke up with someone you deeply liked or loved. Whatever the reason was that you broke up, use that reason to make yourself dislike him, and make yourself feel numb towards him. You must put mental strength into un-liking someone, for it isn't that easy often. To stop liking someone, one must simply put belief and strength into it, and really convince yourself he/she is not needed in your life, and you can do better.

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It hasn't happened to me personally, but I believe that it is quite possible to happen. Often, someone will meet someone and feel an instant bond or connection. It may confuse them, and the person will not know what the feeling is, they may not even know they love the being until later on. Love is a unexplainable and powerful feeling, and it must not be confused with lust or simple attraction. For someone may meet someone, and often may not feel a bond, it could just be attraction. But, once they get to know them, that attraction could form into love. It is not impossible for someone to fall in love at first sight, without knowing the person. Often, the person doesn't even know how it happened, from one simple glance at the being, and one little conversation, they feel a strong feeling for the other, one which they don't know how to explain, and one which won't go away. They say that love at first sight with someone is with the soulmate, or your "true love". It often may be true, or sometimes it could be coincidental. For instance; lets say a woman meets a man. She smiles then glances at the man and shakes his hand. That one simple glance has her heart beating rapidly, his smile melts her heart, and the touch of his hand sends sparks across her skin. She doesn't know what this feeling is, but it gets stronger with every second she's with him. Just a simple glance can take her breath away, and it's not simply the external appearance she's infatuated by, it's his soul and internal aspects. She wishes to know him better, she feels a connection towards him, as if there's an invisible rope tying them together. She doesn't want him to leave, and for she is at a loss of words when they speak. Love at first sight is unpredictable, but possible. It could happen with a man loving the woman, or a woman falling for a man. With just one look, and one touch to their skin, the person may be deeply in love before even five seconds pass. Often, one thinks that it's not possible to fall in love so quickly, but it truly is possible, and it doesn't have to take someone months to fall in love, for it could happen the minute they meet them. But, love at first sight is never easy to explain, and if one doesn't experience it, then they are likely to think of it as a lie, or not likely to happen. When someone feels something for someone the minute they meet them. They must determine if that connection is simply attraction towards appearance, or true love towards the whole body; internal and external.

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True friendship is a rare thing, for there is always complications and disappointments in a friendship, or someone betrays and leaves the other. A true friendship is something some people don't believe in, and it's often something that people don't act out, and most friendships come to depressing ends due to different reasons, some minor and some major. A true friendship is when the people care about each other, it's when they make the other a priority, it's when they comfort each other in their time of need, and are always there for each other. Two true friends are people who never lie, they don't betray each other, they would never abandon the other, they stay for the good and bad, they take your side, stand up for you, they rarely break promises and almost always make up after arguments. True friends are people who are truly happy for the other when they're happy, they never feel like they need to compete, they tell each other things, they congratulate each other, they don't bring the other down, they respect each other, they're understanding with each other, they know the other inside and out. True friendship is something that lasts almost forever, it's a friendship where the two people aren't perfect, they'll make mistakes and get into arguments, but they never leave, and they'll always stay. A true friendship is solid and unbreakable, it's when the two people don't talk for days sometimes, but pick up their friendship without feeling awkward when they see each other again. A true and solid friendships is one of those things people yearn for, they crave to feel loved, they want a friend who won't betray or leave them, they truly want a real friendship that lasts a long time. A true friendship is something rare and wonderful, it's something that people should look for and hold on to, and shouldn't be confused with fake friends. True friends accept each other and their decisions and will be there for the other, or always will care about them. A true friendship is something that rarely comes, but when it does, you won't want to let it go or you wish for it not to end.

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