Ask @cassholms:

From where jealousy starts is it comparison or what?

Jealousy (along with any negative actions) start with yourself. If you are comfortable and confident in yourself and your place in life and other peoples places in life, and can respect it for what it is, you won’t get jealous. It all starts with self love and it’s perfected with a understanding of mutual love, respect and appreciation for everything else. When you know where you stand there’s no need to get jealous. You are where you are, other things are where they are, if you don’t like the way things are in or around you you change what you can to improve your life. Get rid of bad habits, learn new good habits, change your scenery, focus on being happy and moving forward in a positive direction. Don’t focus on others lives enough to be able to waste time being jealous. Jealously stems from being lost, insecure, and wasting your own time overthinking. Doing that won’t help the situation or make you feel good or make you move on. It just holds you back

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Why are some men thin, and others fat, although they eat the same pasta?

What😂 Well, everyone’s metabolism is different. Also the thin man probably works out and the fat man sits most of the day. No matter what you eat if you workout consistently you’ll see results. If you eat healthier you get better results faster but if you wanted to eat pasta and chips all day and still work out it’ll be harder for you and take more time than someone that eats healthy but you will get thinner putting in the work

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Do you believe the devil exists?

Well the devil does exist at least metaphorically because the devil is the representation of all evil. Evil currently exists on Earth so if you are talking metaphorically yes. Literally... I’m not sure. I haven’t had any experiences that would make me personally believe 100%. I can’t indefinitely say no but also I think encounters with ghosts and demons and such have logical explanations and I haven’t had enough personal experience messing with demons or the devil to know whether people convince themselves of it or it’s actually a thing that just hides very well. I know people who are Satanists and Christians and people that don’t follow religion but believe in the devil and a lot of the time people who have had demonic experiences or believe in the devil speak metaphorically

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What do you think about vegans who feed their dogs vegan dog food? Do they have the right to force their diet on their carnivorous pets? BQ: I've seen vegans say they don't trust meat eaters to look after their pets but would you trust a vegan to look after your dog properly, in terms of feeding??

Well, it’s really none of my business what someone else feeds their dogs I just hope they are careful. Dogs can thrive on a vegan diet actually some dogs that are on strict vegan diets live longer healthier lives than dogs that have omnivore diets. Some are malnourished because their owners feed them improper vegan diets. Having a vegan diet is way healthier for a dog than an all meat diet lol. I believe one of the worlds oldest dogs was on a vegan diet of rice, lentils, and vegetables. Maybe it depends a bit on the breed of your dog too, but essentially I think a vegan diet is fine as long as you research and be careful. Also I would allow to let a vegan take care of my dogs food as long as they were comfortable feeding MY dog the way I would like to feed him/her. I don’t force my lifestyle on vegans or their dogs I respect them but I need mutual respect from the people I have in my life. I won’t let a vegan that will force their lifestyle on my dog take care of my dog

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5 things you don't like in people ?

1) Selfish
2) For the most part they don’t separate ideas they think they KNOW what should go together when really you can separate every idea/feeling/action/word. There are definitely noticeable patterns but we create those patterns if we believe they are supposed to happen. They are no guarantees
3) Don’t think for themselves. Ironically a lot of people seem to think they know more than others when they are like this. There’s a trend going on where you’re “supposed” to be unique but really the only unique thing you offer is your unique perspective. Yes your body is unique but not really because everyone has a body there are millions of people with a body almost exactly like yours (if not exactly like yours) and a few with similar faces. No one else has lived your exact life but there are people out there that understand a moment you have lived because they went through the same/very similar. A LOT of people. Your order of operations make you unique and if you handle it with wisdom, smarts, action, grace that will make you stand out completely. Being truly at peace makes you stand out because people are interested in things they don’t have but want desperately and peace is the ultimate goal that’s what we all search for. Peace, peace of mind
4) Complaining. So so many people complain about things instead of doing something about them. Really, you don’t need to vent. I understand wanting to blow off some steam that’s more healthy than holding it in but did you ever consider if you don’t let situations happen that make you want to vent it wont happen? Do you consider when you complain to me you’re making me listen to complaints (that have nothing to do with me)? That’s really negative energy. I don’t complain anymore. I’m not perfect and I’m working on it but within 3 weeks I don’t find myself doing it ever unless I’m around people that do for too long and hearing other people do it almost makes me get a stomach ache. If I notice I’ve started doing it I pull myself out of the situation really quickly. A lot of the time they complain, I console, and I’ll give them a solution or tell them I can help out and then they think for a second then go back to complaining about it. If you do something about it there won’t be anything to complain about. I 100% want everyone to know complaining is not necessary, it is not good for you, please stop it is very unhealthy. Just fix your problems and if it involves another person move on immediately after it happens cause the only person that negatively effects is you. It doesn’t look good or sound good and it’s not helpful to anyone
5) Aren’t healthy. And worse, are beyond healthy but think they are healthy. I don’t know everyone’s life struggles or life story we all have put stuff we go through, but I really don’t like this movement of accepting who you are and strongly defending it from other people. By all means, love yourself. But if you feel the need to defend it you really don’t. Be healthy. Not your version

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Why is it so hard for ppl to apologize?

Guilt vs shame. Healthy guilt is good and helps us take responsibility for our actions. If a person associates feeling guilty with them being a worse person (shame) they’ll avoid admitting responsibility for whatever it is they did. If they do admit responsibility, they will think less of themselves instead of using it as an opportunity to learn and grow as a person. They think a mistake defines who they are instead of the actions they’ve taken/haven’t taken in the past

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Modesty aside; tell us about things you appreciate in yourself.

I love myself. I’m appreciative, I love to learn and have ambition to do so, I’m logical/emotional and have both under my self control, I have a nice ego, I want to be healthy enough to actually get my shit done in order to do so, I understand other people because I want to and naturally help others, I’m a hard worker, I’m wise, I’m loyal, I’m beautiful. I’m going to do the things I love and have appreciation for every experience

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