Ask @chanellearetha:

It’s been 4years & i think i still cant get over my ex.. I’ve stopped following him on social media everywhere since then. But i’ve been thinking of him more than ever recently. Should i drop him a text and ask how he’s doing?

I don’t think that is a wise decision because it has been too long and sometimes by doing so, you are indirectly yourself up for hopes. Hoping can sometimes lead to disappointment.

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