how do I find one that doesn't put on all this game at first like they really care about me then just switch up when they get what they really want?
you shouldn't be giving them what they want until you know for sure they are someone you cou ld be happy woth for a long time. You should have them prove that to you, uoure gonna fet hurt along the way but it only makes you stronger and when you do find the one it will make them that much better. If he's always trying to get something from you he's not the right one respect yourself enough to reserve because if you have the slightest hint that he's using you confront the situation by not giving him what you think he wants from you.