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Carmen Brillianwati
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Do you read/ write stories on wattpad? If yes, what's your username?

I used to, but not anymore. Sorry :(

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heyy may i know u

What's with you all claiming that you want to "know" people, but you ain't even providing me with a tangible identity?! Either you are anonymous/fake/obscure like...???
The right way to "get to know" someone is by initiating the convo and being clear about your intention. You are the one interested in that other person, not the other way around, so you should be the one who works harder (in terms of starting the convo and keeping the convo flow right). Remember to always approach with sincerity, certainly never in a creepy way.
If you are lucky, new friend! If you are not, there's no harm in trying. At least, kamu di-notice. Good luck.

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hi how was your day?

Hi. I am just very sad. Thank you very much for this question.

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Itu gua yang tadi wkwk

Okeh.

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Boleh kenalan? Haha

Kamu mau kenalan tapi malu bgt ya gak pake nama dan wajah.

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teman teman cici ad yg kuliah di america, england, canada, atau australia?

Ada, kecuali Kanada.

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kenapa gk mau apply abroad ci

Oh, aku mau kok. I did apply to two Australian universities (aku baru nyadar 3 sih, tapi 1 tak jelas, so let's consider that nullified). Aku kemarin baru officially withdraw application-ku.
Alasannya simply karena studying in Australia (or anywhere aboard with good universities) will cost a fortune dan aku gak sampe hati kalau sebagian besar hasil kerja keras kedua orang tuaku selama ini harus dikorbankan untuk kuliah aku hanya karena aku berangan-angan kuliah di luar negeri.
Iya, aku bisa apply buat scholarship, tapi Australia pelit banget kalau udah sama yang namanya ngasih beasiswa. The amount of the scholarship awarded is not that small, but it's disproportionate compared to the whole tuition fee.
Iya, aku bisa part-time, tapi itu pun bisa nge-cover sebagian dari living cost doang.
Akhirnya ya aku memilih buat kuliah di Indonesia aja. Toh, universitas di Indonesia banyak juga yang berkualitas.

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vr nguncir 1 dong

Teman-temanku juga suka ngelihat cewek ngucirin rambut, jadi kamu tak aneh.
Tapi setidaknya mereka gak lancang minta cewek-cewek di internet buat ngucirin rambut mereka di depan kamera.
(Terus ternyata ini request temanku yang bersembunyi di balik topeng anonim.)

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ci kuliah mana?

Belum resmi jadi mahasiswanya sih, tapi udah diterima di UNAIR hehe.

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What communication are studying about??

Basically, you learn how to manipulate people, but please don't take this from someone who knew about Communication Studies from random websites on internet.

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oh my god sure let's hang

Zara | IG: @sskeletale

Well. *chokes* Crap.
Hi. Queen.
Oh my God, I should bow. *bows*.
Sure, let's chill. Hang. Go outside.

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wait today is ur birthday?

No, it's 3 days ago.

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Ops it's really unbelievable :O See this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UGsqHBKQMm8

Do not find it unbelievable tho-
It is only natural.

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Happy birthday ci carmen

where u from

Medan, Sumat(e)ra Utara, Indonesia.

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Our queen @skeletale goes to UNAIR

YESSS.
I first knew UNAIR from her, and when I saw UNAIR while I was looking for an esteemed public university with an accredited Communication Studies major, I decided to consider it as one my top three choices for PTN.
This was meant to happen okay. I am looking forward to bumping into @skeletale somewhere in Surabaya and clicking together instantly and we'll be BFFs and run the world together.
A girl can dream, alright.

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I also apply for unair. What is your major?

Communication Studies!
What's yours?

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How your sbmptn

Well, I got into UNAIR(!!!)
Crazy grateful because I thought I wouldn't pass. Also, veeeeery excited because... Surabaya! Who would've thought? I have never been there😆
P.S. If anyone happens to know anyone who is/was an UNAIR student OR if you happen to have boarding houses/apartments recommendations near the university, please contact me? Thank you!

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ever confess your feelings to a boy?

Yes.
Not exactly a boy, really.
With the assumption that someone - anyone - will judge me, no, it's not unusual. Or "murahan" (literally cheap) as Indonesians put it. What? A woman (or anyone, honestly) can't be straightforward about her feelings?

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Carmen, i'm laughing my arse off reading your latest wall 😂😂 way to go!!

Shelly Tandiono

But- but-
What's funny? 😂

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Activities during holiday?

Your question is so mundane.
Like my holiday.

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What is your point of view of your religion and of religion?

This is not something I can talk about in just an ask.fm answer. If you do want to discuss about it, either meet me IRL or chat me up.

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it'd be nice if you could share a few tips on how to be assertive and opinionated? (in the sense that one is independent and critical in thinking. Most people your age either dont give a shit about 'issues' or are simply too reluctant to use their brain to read, let alone to think.)

I am in no place to share any tips as I myself am struggling with that, too. The fundamental rule is in your question tho. Don't be too reluctant to use your brain to read or think.

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how do you spend your holiday?

Nothing that will come to fruition in the near future. I suggest you to do the opposite (read: do not delay anything important).
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Meanwhile, I just came back from a friend's farewell BBQ party x sleepover at which about 80% of us did not sleep. It was unspeakably... Beautiful. All the epiphanies throughout the late hours. I feel like so many things - great things - happened last night/this morning it is still surreal.
Good night, I am getting some sleep now.

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