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all the stuff you say about Dan like about how much you love him and being together is the best all that cute shit.. you said about Dan P before .. hahaa

I've tried to write an answer about 5 times but do you know what I cba to explain anything in the slightest, because you are clearly someone I couldn't give two flying fucking shits about, otherwise you'd either know about it or would confront me.
so do one you utter wanker.

Your pp kinda looks like you're smiling at your armpit. Not to sound harsh, you still look gorgeous in it :) It just made me smile

it's because under my armpit lives my friend dorris, she like a miniature Dobby ;)

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You should do an agony aunt service. Like a website or something. you should spread your gift

my tumblr is an advice page :) thank you!
chodiewongxo.tumblr.com

It wouldnt let me finish:( But I told one girl, I thought she was my bestfriend, but when she became popular she told everyone, It was the worst thing ever, after I cut again, she doesn't even care, she thinks its a big joke, I would tell you who it is, but after what she did to me, I trust no one:(

it's okay I completely understand.. this must have been tough for you but you got through it and even though you probably felt awful, you're still here!
trusting people can be hard but I think that something clicks inside of you when you know you can trust someone, and so you won't be this alone and paranoid as you may feel forever :)
I hope my post helped, there are tons of little things to do to help you get through, and stop! most of which are writing down good things and traits about yourself.
purchasing something like a stress ball could work too, those powder filled things with faces are good to hit!
Your body is a beautiful thing, you shouldnt cover it in anything that doesn't bring happiness:)
you can keep in touch on text, still anon, but ill save your number?:) xx
(p.s are you the anon who wanted my number?)

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The thing is..I cut myself, quite a bit actually, and everyone knows. I have cuts all down my wrists, and people can see when I'm at school. I get called 'emo' all the time. Not many people know why I cut, it's a long emotional story, that I only tell people I can really trust. I told one girl...I t

okay, so I have had a cutting question on tumblr and here is some potential solutions, the first bit doesn't really make sense but it basically said.. first of all, collect all the things you cut with put them on a black bag, and chuck them or put them in a lockable box and chuck them, this first of all can refrain you from cutting in the future.. if you're thinking 'but kitchen knives', think about it, you've cut yourself with a butching knife, and your parent it trying to find it, yes washing it may get most of the blood of but there could still be traces, then obviously your parent will use it, sounds grim I know but hopefully that will make you think!
okay the top bit did say, that maybe you could get a little diary, decorate it to your liking and then whenever you feel like cutting get it out and write a happy memory, or you could write tons in there when your feeling happy and whenever you feel like cutting just look at it..
Idk if this is a good idea but it popped into my head, write down the thing that gets you upset and re*write the sentence but change every negative thing or person into either the opposite or something stupid so that your finished sentence sounds like something from a rowntrees randoms advert.. then maybe doodle around it, burn it? or stick it on your wall and read it every day to make you laugh? idk random idea!
what does the last part mean? the.. l..t?
writing down your problem and burning the piece of paper in a precious and significant place helps for some people!
for your scars, something like bio oil begins to fade them? also don't cover them up in the sun (I know we don't get much anymore) as it helps fade your scars!
ignore anybody who calls you an emo because they clearly haven't matured, as that is a very childlike stereotype!
idk what else to say apart from yhe fact that, I am always here for advice, on anything and it sometimes it's better to talk than to cut, if ever you wanted to talk at all text or ring me, if you rang me I wont say a word ill listen:)
just hang on in there, look to the postive side of things and smile :) xx

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Well I want to ask you stuff anonymously but at the same time I don't want it posted onto ask.fm... but don't worry about it :)

it was wrong the number... sorry.. it's 07456394525, dont get signal though! :) erm use my tumblr?

I tried that number and got no reply so I though maybe you had typed it out wrong...

erm, I'm currently at Dans and I get no signal.. inbox me?

I would love to tell you who I am but I think it makes it a lot easier by staying anonymous :)

okay chicka, good luck :) x

hey it's me again, i did what you suggested and hung out with a couple of his friends todaywhich was good and we had a laugh, annoyingly he wasn't actually there but hopefully his friends might mention me or something?? you probably don't care but i just wanted to tell someone :3

thought I replied, but well done, that's incredibly brave :) glad you're happy! would love to know who you are though! hope things go well :) x

What are your plans for tomorrow?

spending it with my gorgeous boyfriend because it's our 1 year of being together :) so frigging excited, going for a meal xx
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What is your best feature and your worst feature in your opinion? :)

erm, my eyes as my eyelashes are really long..
worst feature, probably my stomach..

Sounds depressing?:( xxxx

it is, but it really is worth 20 minutes as it's so true and shows you what gay people really feel about rejection from society, watch it! :) xxxx
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What was that video of, didn't really want to watch it? Sorry, no need for a big para, just a brief summary:) xxx

its about, if the world was the opposite way round on their views, and Gays are normal and everybody disapproved of being straight, and about a girl who likes a boy but gets bullied ans self harms and commits suicide.. Its worth a watch xxxx

I do have a Tumblr advice page btw (to people who have been asking things today) its not the busiest because everyone uses Ask.fm to ask me, but I would really appreciate the same amount of questions on Tumblr too:) chodiewongdo.tumblr.com

jodiee☮
:)
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thank you so much jodie, I'll try and talk to him more :)

welcome chicka, have a look at a recent question I answered someone else has given some advice, and it's quite a good point!:) good luck xx
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advice to the person asking you questions. Don't just talk to the one guy you like, talk to his friends, guys and girls, and then once you're getting closer to all of them then maybe one of them, it might not be 'the guy', will invite you to something... or you would be able to invite out his group

exactly.. thats such a good point :)
I said that in one of my other posts in this situation, all of his friends are incredibly lovely and would love to get to know someone new :)
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