help.....i really cant cope with my homework rn i just wana escape from it all!!

Hey there! First of all, the best thing to do is don't panic and don't worry. If you can't cope with your homework atm that's probably because your working style is not as good as it could be. Think, how do you personally do your homework and manage your time? Do you finish all your homework the day it's given, or do you procrastinate 24/7 (hehe) and speed-finish your homework in the last hour before bed? Having a healthy working style is one of the best ways to help yourself finish your homework, no matter how much you have, and head in for an early night! You should try to minimize procrastination time as much as possible, as much as you want to, and try to focus on homework. Maybe you could set yourself a target and say, "I'll finish all my homework as soon as I get home, and after that I can play whatever game I want or watch whatever movie/TV show I want." That will get you motivated the first few times and sooner or later, it'll become second nature. I fully understand what you mean by wanting to escape the burden of homework/schoolwork but unfortunately, if you try to avoid it in any way, the load will just keep getting heavier and heavier. One of the most valuable lessons that I've learnt from my previous experiences is not to avoid anything. At the time, you may think that avoiding the problem and escaping will solve the problem and you won't have anything to do with it later. You're thinking "Oh great, that problem's gone and solved, everything will be alright." Well, you're wrong. You might be escaping the little thing you're trying to avoid, but in reality, you'll always have to face another problem that will have been caused because of you avoiding the first one. It's like a chain of problems. Avoid the first one, the second one hits you in the face, harder than the first one. Avoid that one as well, and the third one just knocks you down harder. This is an unhealthy lifestyle that we should all not be living. The best thing to do, always, is to face the problem. Face problem number 1, the weakest problem, and you won't ever have to go along with the chain of problems. Going along with the chain of problems is just asking for trouble. From what I've faced on my journey of escaping and avoiding things, I've learnt that facing the problem, giving yourself a challenge, is the easiest way to solve a problem. Usually, when you really put in effort and face the problem, it isn't as hard as you thought it would be. And if it is as bad as you thought it would be, at least you would have tried. You would have faced your problem and looked at it hard in the eye, but instead of crumbling to the floor, you would have turned away, feeling stronger than you've ever felt before. This is what facing the problem does to you. It builds you up and turns you into a new person. You gain a lot of self confidence and self respect. So I know all this is a bit much for a homework problem, but I really think that if you read this, it will inspire you. x

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