Ask @claudinehere:

Do you pay attention to the lyrics of songs? What is your favorite one?

Yes! I usually pay more attention to the lyrics than the melody!
Some of my favorite songs with lyrics that spoke to me are (there are a lot so obviously this isn't complete!):
Swear It Again - Westlife
Do I Make You Proud - Taylor Hicks
Time Of My Life - David Cook
My Kind Of Perfect - David Archuleta
Mula Ngayon - Rachelle Ann Go
Sino Ako - Regine Velasquez
Araw-Gabi - Regine Velasquez
Lie - David Cook
Permanent - David Cook
Amazing - Regine Velasquez (idk who the original is but yea love this song)
Once - Shane Filan
The Way You Look At Me - Christian Bautista
About You - Shane Filan
Beautiful World - Westlife
Obvious - Westlife

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The bf doesnt want to talk about it kahit sinasabi na ni gf yung problema. Ang masakit pa binabalik sa kanya ang prob. Saying na naffeel ng bf ay di rin sya tanggap. What happens is the difficulty in the situation itself is to try to engage the bf into seriously talk about without getting mad...

Ay, nagagalit agad siya... defensive si kuya. Emotional abuse lang ang peg.
I really believe na if someone loves you and is concerned about you, he will always, ALWAYS acknowledge your feelings (even though he doesn't agree or understand why). But in this case, he clearly doesn't give a damn about the girl's feelings. So girl, kung ikaw man ito, sorry to say this: Hindi ka na importante sa kanya.

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.. ayaw pansinin ni bf. Petty na problema ba yun? Immature? Can you actually set aside the foundation of trust? Yung proseso para maramdaman ng partner mo na pwede mo syang kausapin sa kahit saan?

So yeah, talk about it. Ask him why hindi ka niya kinakausap. Baka busy lang or maraming ginagawa. Maybe he has a demanding job. In my experience guys are not good multi-taskers so they prefer to just focus on one thing at a time (hello, J) pero hindi ibig sabihin hindi ka mahal or pinagkakatiwalaan niyan. THAT is the immature way of thinking about it.
Now, if he doesn't seem interested in fixing the problem and he's not concerned at all about how you feel, then you may have to dig deeper. What are you guys doing wrong?

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Kapag ang issue ay communication, like yung bf di kinakausap yung gf in a way na parang di sya "pinipiling" kausapin, hindi sya sabik kausapin ang gf, hindi nya ineexplore ang gf. Resulting na ang gf ay pakiramdam ay under appreciated sya. And the issue was seen sa umpisa palang pero ayaw pansinin..

Point taken, pero lagi ko kasi iniisip diyan kung bakit ba siya hindi kinakausap ng boyfriend. Is he busy? Marami ba siyang ginagawa? Of course isa sa mga factors yun but then again yung mga ganyang problema can be easily solved by talking about it. Hindi pwedeng feeling mo lang under-appreciated ka or you need his attention pero wala kang ginagawa about it.

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