How do I get over my fear of asking someone out? Im not afraid of the rejection. As weird as it sounds im terrified of them saying yes. I dont know what to do after that, what to say, where to take them. I rather hide. Does anyone suffer from this? Im so lost. I am a man and I know i can get a “yes”

Smoke some cannabis first.

I know how you can fix this little problem. Dm me

Ask strangers for money, they will say no, then asking people for things will get easier

Quit bein a sis bish

Does this person make you nervous?

Easy! Have them write down a list of all their favorite places, throw them all in a bucket & then randomly pick a place every time you feel like your social battery can handle going out

after they say yes tell them all that

I am a man too & that was the most confusing shit i’ve ever read I almost popped a vein trying to understand, how do you wanna ask someone out but scared of them to say yes ? Is it more of a thing where you want that person but when you get that person you don’t wanna mess things up between each other & if you do mess up you’re afraid you won’t be able to have that person anymore after that ? If so you just have to go for it life’s too short to dwell or procrastinate on things we want in life .. just go for it if it was meant to be they would accept you & work w you despite flaws

Maybe you need a plan, something unusual, interesting that you can confidently talk about. If you know what to do, you won't be afraid.

Yes

SMH seems like u are in doubt

enjoy the yes. make plans to hangout or go on a date. set aside money and a nice outfit for that day.

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Why are you afraid of the yes something mus of happened. If nothing happened then own up to it its 50/50 from then on not all the responsibility is yours

It's normal to fear that as well, because you are opening yourself up to get hurt...and you know that. After being hurt it's very difficult to open yourself up to that again.

Have plans of where to take them before you ask and your fears will melt away.

Oh my god dude quit lying to yourself just do it

Aww just ask them out! What's the worst that can happen right? I like to think as long as you try, you'll be proud of yourself at the end of the day. After you get a yes, pick a day and place could be something casual like coffee or lunch and have fun! If not, no sweat. At least you tried and you know!