Do you just pick and choose who you tell? How many people have you told? When did it happen?
the main source of "baggage" happened like, 6 years ago idk and since then i've told like 5 people? it's honestly just kind if a barrier that differentiates my friends from the people i'm closest to and feel safest with. it's not meant to make anyone feel bad or anything if they don't know, it's just something i do to keep myself comfortable.