Ask @deathmessiah:

Do you compare everyone to "that 1 person" you aren't with but would sacrifice everything for? Are you able to be with him/her/them? If not, what do you do to make it? Asking for me...

No, I don't compare others to one person because everyone has a different soul. I can differentiate between people. I like to think if I wanted to be with someone, I can, but it takes two to make that decision. And how I make it... well, it's quite simple. I'm an independent person. I move forward.