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Had sex with guy and afterwards he starts talking to my p*ussy. Saying things like "I can't wait to see you again, you were great." First is this something guys do? Should I be flattered? He also told me my p*ssy no longer belongs to me anymore.

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I find it corny, but not the end of life. He enjoyed the sex. Be flattered if you like, or not.
He was talking post-sex ish. I'd take the "it's my p****" with a grain of salt. I mean, you could think piece it and have a conversation about how only you are the only owner of your body. But I don't find it necessary at this point.
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