are you purposely trying to have a baby or are they accidents? (not being rude just wondering)
I don't believe any child is an accident. You know exactly what could happen the moment you decide to have sex. The first time I was trying. The second time was a shock. We tried preventing it but obviously it didn't really work the way we thought. The third time I just didn't think it would happen. It was so random and it was a stupid decision. I don't regret any of my children. I love them unconditionally.