Quality time, words of affirmation, emotional support, thoughtful gifts or acts of service, respect, transparency, affection, vulnerability… I could go on and on, I’m in love just thinking about it! 🥰
I don’t hate anything about myself. Physically, I dislike the gap in my teeth. Personality wise, I dislike that I am a giver/healer - because it’s rarely reciprocated.
Would you break off things with your husband if you found out he didn’t tell you everything that happened when he fucked up, yet I happened months ago?
Yikes. It all depends on your boundaries. For me, if the fuck up was cheating, and I gave him another chance (which I wouldn’t) only to later found out the woman was pregnant, all bets would be off. Do what’s best for your esteem, mental health, and family - if that’s what you want.