They love and enjoy talking to me but they never text first they get excited and blabla tab why the hell they never text first? What to do in such case?
Me too, I'm rarely texting the first, this doesn't mean I don't care! neither they do, but maybe something like habit or routine filling the way they act, so in my point of view it is ok. But if you have got bored tell them, you are not mandated to accept the ones you dont want.