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How can I get a boyfriend

The biggest thing would be getting out of the house and start taking up something you enjoy and you could end up meeting new people which may also include boys, go to youth clubs after school this is a great way to meet people around your age etc... Once you've meet someone make sure you get to know them before you start thinking you want them as your next boyfriend, see if there single or not , check with your friends to see what they think about the guy. Take it slow into getting to know him don't rush your new friend if he don't like you for who you are then don't spend time trying to get to know him. Show him your different, be yourself when you talk to him try not to be another face in a crowd, be individual, fun and fascinating. Be approachable, set time aside to hang with him give eye contact and make sure you smile don't look unsociable so on.talk to him, find any excuse to talk to him, interact with him& be a good friend, get to know each other see what you have in common. Make him fall for you, bring out the best in him,lead by example to help him improve nothing harsh etc allow yourself to be your best around him, show your independence, encourage him to be dependant be yourself etc remember after this you could make a move etc goodluck

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I've been talking to this boy 4 about 2 weeks and he told me he liked me and then a week later he couldn't remember he said that. He's rlly inconsistent, he'll reply instantly sometimes and ignore me the rest, he keeps trying to make me make the first move but I don't even know if he likes me?

If he's keeps blowing hot and cold with you there's not a lot you can do, don't feel like you've got any ties to him at all because he seems to be playing with you and your emotions if you want to know what he's feeling on his end have that conversation and ask what you are to each other if he can't give you a straight answer move on

Do you know what goodbye everyone I am not going to keep this if all people are going to do are be horrible to me so I am going to delete this 😡😪

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How to end a friendship? Been best friends with her for 3 years. Thing is, I have enough pain in my life from anxiety and depression, and this is causing more. So how to end it? She and I also have all the same friends at school so I don’t know how it’ll play out after I end it.

If you feel it's a toxic friendship and is really impacting your mental health you should perhaps take a step back and explain that you need time to yourself to deal with your own problems you've got going on if she's a good friend she'll totally understand where your coming from

I'm having flashbacks from when I got bullied last year. When I think of the major things that happened to me I think about what I could've done differently and end up crying. What should I do? Cause I don't know who to trust. And sadly I can't make friends.

It's extremely difficult to overcome the effects of bullying over the years it feels like it's always there underneath the surface awaiting to arise.. If you've got anyone absolutely definitely speak to them and get there input on the situation- we always over analyse situations and reflect on what you should've done but you can't go back you can only go forward

My boyfriend is so sensative he gets so offended everytime I make any kind of joke, it's really frustrating as he goes into a mood and just starts pointless arguments, how can j stop him getting so offended all the time?

It's a difficult situation, everyone's completely different and have different lines which you can cross and have varied boundaries some people take comments to heart whilst others shrug them off and move forward.

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