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look at me! I just liked the one that says I hate my dad to death

Do you mean you're the girl I talked to about that situation? -Maddie x

but hes like the most amazing person I no! he loves God and hes great with little kids and hes athletic and cute and sweet but im not pretty

who says you're not pretty, I bet your a beautiful girl! He'd be lucky to have a girl like you:) don't put yourself down sweetie. you're good enough for him trust me :)
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he amazing and his brother always tells him when I walk in the room so im not sure if he likes me or not

it could be a possibility, because he's always seems to be nervous around you. Girls are aloud to make the first move, so if you think he likes you back go for it, even if you ask to meet up or something. do whatever makes you feel comfortable.
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I mean hes really shy and doesn't really talk to anyone but the little kids and when I do say something he only responds with one or two words

it'll take time with shy people, especially talking to the opposite gender. It could help if you tried talking to him on a regular basis so he gets youst to being around you& talking to you and stops being as nervous and shy around you. it takes a bit of time for people to become completely comfortable around you, but if you keep at it he should talk to you for longer etc

he goes to my church and ive liked him for 5 years and we haven't had one convo

Have you tried talking to him? Maybe to try and start a conversation. See if you have common interests. -Maddie x
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I wanna have an advice page, I have tried. Any tips on how to get started?

Meghan
Well, you can either have one by yourself, or have other admins along with you. You can change your name to something inspirational, perhaps. Or say it in your bio, that you're an advice page. And you can go around to other advice pages and have them share you. There are many different ways. -Maddie x

but I don't want professional help

denial, yeah everyone goes through it. you probably thinking like people have at times " I don't need help it's not bad" or "I'm under control" or even " I don't want help, I like the way I am". when you don't because if you didn't want help you wouldn't have asked for it on this page I know you care about your health but you think inside of your head "if I stop and start eating properly and keeping it in, il get fat and it will seem like the end of the world" when it wouldn't be you'd be healthier, less moody etc

im so scared!

when I had all of my stuff, because I'm really shy I youst to either write down what I couldn't physically say or email them what's going on. if it makes you feel uncomfortable try writing down all you need and want to say and give it to them or slip it under they're door and explain that it's a very difficult thing to talk about openly they'll understand and respect that you've told them. they'll help you and support you I promise, yeah it was so scary for me to but afterwards I felt better getting it off my chest

you helped me yesterday with bulimia and cutting .....how do I tell someone

it's a hard topic to talk about, it wouldn't be easy admitting you have a problem but it's the first step on the way to your recovery. I would knock on your school counsellors door ask her/ him if he's busy or not and say that you need to speak to them, if they can talk to you. Then you talk about why you've came to them and explain how you're feeling what's exactly going on and how your also self harming on a regular basis and that your bulimic. don't worry, too much it may seem terrifying asking for help but when you've got it it makes you feel a little better, they'll talk to you about what's triggered this and ask you a few questions nothing too much

Dear Stranger, We are all stories in the end. Yours will have its ups and its downs, its happy times and its sad times and the most unbearable times. But I think, in the end, yours will be amazing.

me
Um.. Ok.. Thank you -Maddie x

I asked my crush out and we haven't talked since yesterday. I don't know what he's going to say back to me and im scared he'll say no.

Sweetie, just hope for the best. Be confident. Have hope. Maybe he'll say yes. -Maddie x
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l hate dating l think its totally disgusting

Well, that's your opinion. Everyone has their own ideas on the concept of dating. I personally love the idea of dating. I find it amusing, yet cute at times. But that's up to you about what you think. Why do you think it's disgusting if I may ask? -Maddie x

l can die and live in peace

No you can't. You have so much to live for. Don't you want to get married? Have children? Follow your dreams? Meet new people? Fall in love? You committing will only affect the people around you. They'll think your death was their fault. Everyone will blame it on themselves. You can't let them do that. Please rethink this. -Maddie x
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he just hit us very hard for fucking stupid things like if the food has alot of salt... for me l just think when he'll die and l will never ever and forever help him when he get older although he's old. l dont worry about myself l just worry about my mother when she know lm trying to kill myself.

Sweetie, don't kill yourself over him. You have to be there for your mum and your brother. Have you gone to the police? He can get arrested for child abuse, and abuse in general. StY strong for your mother and your brother. They need you. Don't leave them. -Maddie x
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l hate my fucking dad to death. when l was around 6 years old l wanted to run from home and never come again ever. he used he hit my mother alot and my young brother .and now lm 16 and l dont know what to do sometimes l heart myself with knife and blood come out so hard to the extend l get worried

Well hunny, don't cut yourself. Does he still abuse them? Has he abused you in any way? Please don't harm yourself. Don't use a knife or any sharp object. Your skin is priceless. It's precious. Don't hurt it. -Maddie x
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I just want to thank everyone at this page SO SO Much, I literally can not emphasise how thankful I am. I am now seeing the boy and am so happy. love to you all xxx

Love you to sweetie. I'm glad we could help -Maddie x
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it wasnt a guy though thats the thing

sorry,
maddie got confused because I answered your question beforehand. but either way you shouldn't be in a relationship with her if she's been unfaithful it isn't fair on you, it's up to her to decide upon her sexuality. I know it's hard but you've got to let her go, find someone who isn't unfaithful and loves you unconditionally. you deserve more than you think.
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