Do you think cats see us as their mother when they knead on us and purr?
some do, some dont. dependent on the cat lol
PLS TELL ME UR GOING TO BE ON TELL WHEN ASK DECIDES TO CLOSE DOWN IN DEC
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Would you wear a rosary despite not being religious(or of a religion where it's used), if you just liked it as a fashion item?
are electric blankets good for pets? my cat loves heat and i wanna buy a small one for her to sit on it. but im also reticent about it bc i heard they aren't always safe so idk.
they're fine as long as you get a good quality one and use as directed + with supervision. i had one for my cat sardines
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people still say that shit? lmfao 💀
Why don’t we make smoking indoors legal again? Smoking in a restaurant with your lover is like totally vintage, it’s so Marilyn Monroe coded, I live for that aesthetic💎
just go to mexico 🙂
Is it bad that I want to date someone from another ethnicity? I'd love to date an Armenian person, I feel like they're interesting people, and they have uncommon looks. They're not like white enough to be considered white, but they're not considered POC either. I feel like this sounds wrong tho
yeah um wanting to date someone of a certain race is definitely... odd to say the least
hot take: gay ppl are even more biphobic than straight ppl. i feel like, the hets don't even care that much cause they're more focused on gay and trans people, they don't even acknowledge bisxuality, but SOME gay people try to make it as if bi people aren't valid enough or qúeer enough.
i'm gonna be so honest i don't care lol. like most queer discourse is so fucking stupid and i just outgrew caring. literally just go to a gay bar or queer event irl and nobody cares
Do you think gender reveal parties are trans/nonbinary erasure? I've seen a lot of trans people saying that gender reveal parties reinforce the now outdated idea that sx and gender are the same thing and a baby's sx will determine their gender identity.
no lmfao. there's nothing wrong w raising ur kid as their biological sx as long as you do not force them into gender norms or dissuade them from being gnc
Why do people in the Northeast US use “y’all”. That’s southern.
do you think it's appropriate for parents to throw parties at home (w. smoking, drinking etc) while the kids are present? mine would drop me off to grandma's who lived across street but sometimes id be present. thinking about it now it's weird. but it was the 90s. completely different times.
light drinking: yes. smoking: nicotine yes if its outside, weed also yes if you're not stupid when high (some people genuinely just get calm, some use it medicinally, etc), and again outside and AWAY FROM THE KIDS. like as long as you can still be a responsible parent and you don't expose your kids to the stuff directly, its fine
My cousin's wife is pregnant, and they recently found out the baby's gender. When my mom asked him, he said, 'It's a girl,' but with a frown on his face. He wanted his firstborn to be a boy to pass on the family name in the future. Do you think that's outdated minded and a bit silly?
it is silly, but i also dont think its wrong to want a specific gender of kid in general, as long as you don't let it upset you when that gender is not what you expect it to be. i want a boy and a girl, but I wont be mad if I don't get that.
Why is Gen Z so obsessed with Selena. They weren't even born when she was alive. I mean she was a great artist, but it's just surprising to see lol
most of gen z grew up with selena's music tho, like I grew up with her music (and, granted, she also was very popular where I lived bc. predominantly Hispanic area and also selena came here often according to my dad). so I don't think its odd tbh. like I love listening to the cure & depeche mode even tho that's not my era of music
Have you weighted your pets?
just at the vet, with the exception of shark bc I like to monitor his health a little more since he has asthma and I worry about him as a result (also his weight varies often bc he's a maine coon and they put on a lil more weight than an average cat would in the winter bc they're big ass cats). brea is usually an average of 5 lbs (she's very small), salami is about 12, shark is usually 17 most of the year (up to 25 in the winter, heaviest he was was 30 but he was also. very lazy that year bc he was sick), laika is 9 last time I took her to the vet but I take her to the vet less bc she has diagnosed anxiety and is overall in good health, so I don't want to cause her more stress than necessary with yearly checkups. like a yearly checkup will cause stress for 2 weeks for my poor laika.
Do you ever spontaneously take a vacation, or do you plan it out in detail beforehand? For me, it depends on my mood, to be honest. I usually book a trip somewhere without much thought; it's very spontaneous and impulsive, which isn't ideal, but oh well lol.
ive done spontaneous vacations !! definitely not ideal but they've always worked out and I've had fun. i love to travel and have been very blessed that I'm able to travel often.
Is it weird that my grandma's cat had only one kitten for her first litter? Don't they usually have like 3 to 5?
nope, some cats only have one ! especially for their first litter :) totally normal. anything from 1-8 is normal :3
Were punks the OG "woke" people? Punk was not just a musical genre, but it started out as a movement that was anti-establishment, anti govt, anti capitalist etc.
most alt movements are actually political in origin, tiktok just dilutes them to music/clothing based subcultures which is simply not true
Have you ever felt pressured to be friends with someone because you felt like you *had* to? Like this person and I have known each other practically since we were babies. Our moms have been bffs forever, but I don't really have anything in common w/them, especially as adults, the vibe ain't vibing.
not rly but also i'm autistic so i just don't entertain that mindset like u just cannot force me to be friends w someone im sorry
you dont lol. unless youre like a student or a new parent or disabled or smthn they dont let you.but when youre called in literally just say you dont believe in the judicial system's fairness and they dismiss you
Have you noticed how the word 'internet' has gradually been replaced by 'social media' over the years? People used to refer to anything online as the internet, but now they tend to just say 'social media' instead.
yeah but also social media is not a replacement for internet. its just that when people used to say 'internet', they meant social media
Have you watched Drag Race?
i stopped watching consistently after season 10 bc aquaria will always be peak to me
I hope this makes sense, but is this correct? that, while all LGBTQ+ people suffer from discrimination and share a lot of similar experiences, those who are also POC, for example, their experience will differ from white queers' experiences?
yes
I remember when I had a house party and a drunk guest started dancing with my cat in their arms, shaking her and spinning her. Do you think that's animal ab*se? I was talking to someone about this memory, and the person said it was a form of animal ab*se, but the cat wasn't injured or anything.
depends on the roughness & how it was done. you can dance with a cat (including shaking and spinning) in a normal way but also in an ab*sive way
Do you like scallops?
i dont eat shellfish lol im jewish
Do you think that when it comes to phones, it's mostly narrowed down to two brands? I know other companies still make phones, but it feels like nowadays everyone has either an iPhone or a Samsung. Back in the 2000s, it seemed like everyone had a different, unique phone, lol.
yeah it definitely feels that way lmao. i do know a few folks with google pixels lolidk how much of it is romanticization though because I only remember motorolla, LG, and blackberry (and blackberry was really only for businesspeople)