I'm falling for a guy im friends with benefits with. he says he also likes me but doesn't want a relationship right now. What do I do, do i tough it out and stay with it because we have such a deep connection and great sex and maybe hope he falls for me later or do i stop the whole thing now?

You stop the whole thing, i'm sorry to tell you. But you get the heartbreak now and not later. He likes you for what you give him, but won't be wanting a relationship with you... i've been through the EXACT same thing. He has told me the same thing. You end it, and leave it at that.