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Serious question: Should you get married if you are emotionally attached to someone else.( not w the person you're about to marry)? The person you r going to marry is perfect ticks all the boxes but you are scarred by past traumas and still have feelings for the person who hurt you?

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Don't ever let you emotions take over your senses. Marriage is a life time decision.if your bond with that person have respect, growth, support system, mental maturity and understanding then do for it. Because every relation have its own ups and down. Being get hurt is just a part of that thing, what really matters how you amend that and ready for the change and sacrifice. If there is a spark and mental health is not getting disturbed go for it. Rest there not a single relation that can go ideally!
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Serious question: Should you get married if you are emotionally attached to someone else.( not w the person you're about to marry)? The person you r going to marry is perfect ticks all the boxes but you are scarred by past traumas and still have feelings for the person who hurt you?

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Never get married to someone who has a pattern of hurting you again and again. The thought of spending your life with another person might be scary but not as scary as the life you're gonna live with your toxic partner
Choose your mental peace once. You will be proud of yourself. :)
Move on and forget about the past. The person what hurt you previously, will do it again. Give the other one a chance and you'll be happy forever, in Sha Allah. PS. I am speaking from my experience.
Besides the emotional attachments and traumas you experienced in the past. You must prefer one having better qualities of being a good husband. It is not necessary that the one you may love, can be a good life partner too. Anyhow, there are much more stuff to be checked in a good husband.
Emotions are just to feel. Decisions can never be taken on behalf of emotion.
Never be that emotional stupid.

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