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i always try to study but i can't concentrate what shld i do

First off, where do you study?
You should always pick a quiet environment where you won't have the added distraction of other people.
Study where you have enough room for all your stuff!
If you find it helpful to study with others get together with a responsible friend who isn't going to distract you.
Some people find noise highly distracting so try putting in headphones. Other people benefit from having a little music on while studying.
Try to keep distractions such as facebook and your phone away from you.
Set goals for yourself and reward yourself when you reach that goal! This will help motivate you to study!
Do not be afraid to take breaks but remember to set a time limit for yourself.
Also if you are not in the mood to start your work try playing a little game or taking a internet break before you get your gears going. This will help make it seem less like something you are forced to do!
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Who's Alexa and what is this about?

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