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How do end a relationship when someone lives with you?

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Before I say how..
You should end a relationship if you don't feel it is what will challenge you to grow as an individual.
Leaving anybody for trivial reasons will impact your potential to see the next stages of your life with them and will drain both your energy and time that will have a negative impact on your trajectory in life; you will hold off becoming a mother, you will always second guess yourself and miss opportunities, you will constantly lack self esteem and will bet less on yourself in key events in your life when YOU really need you to be you when no one is watching.
If you genuinely do not feel that whoever you are with will help you realize your talents or will help you scale to the next plateau and see you for more than just a partner in life? Now would be a good time to free up that option.
If you do this simply because you want to date someone else for a change only to go back to an ex? You will not evolve.
If you leave who you are with, you have to set up the necessary steps and build up confidence and an emotional support team (mother, friends, father, coworkers). You are going to make a life-changing decision after all.
You have to be candid, yet respectful, firm, and decisive.
This version of you needs your strongest you.
If you decide to let someone go, for VALID and strong personal reasons (not trivial), this version of you needs to let them know that your time with them has been an experience that you will not forget, but you're not sure this is what you want if your time with them is a prelude of your future with them.
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