27, 9 yr relationship, Newly single, very much an introvert and homebody. Almost on the extreme side. So not much of a social person unless approached. With that said How would you suggest I go about dating?

Start an OkCupid account, join Tinder, and start letting your friends know you're ready to see what is out there. Tell them if they have any coworkers, friends, or family they might want to set you up with, you're game.
But whichever way you approach, keep your mind right and focus on having fun. Even if you are looking to get back into something serious, don't make every date about that. Your mind should be on enjoying this new chapter to the best of your ability so make sure the goal on every single date you have is to have as much fun as possible.

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Creator of the blog Until I Get Married/New York Post dating reporter/The Root contributing editor/Music and pop culture critic. Hapa man.

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