Is it fair to ask s/o to consider moving x-country? I have a great job in San Diego and we've been doing the distance thing for 2 yrs now. $ spent on tix could be a DP on her ring. Feels like we cant save for our future bc we're always paying for flights.

Absolutely, man. Have the talk and make sure you let her know what your intentions are when she moves out there, that you want to begin your future together. Hopefully she feels the same and even though San Diego might not be where she wants to be, let her know that San Diego may not be forever, but you want you two to be forever.
Best of luck man!

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