What is a trait in someone else/or in general that you'd like to adapt/improve upon within yourself? (e.g. Charisma, determination, confidence, empathy, etc)
Plan making and socialization. The ability to make better plans for my life and execute them better. Improving my ability to socialize with others in the proper way so I can have the most benefit. I already make lots of plans, I already socialize with lots of people, but I still need a lot of improvements in these if I want to live my dream life.
What's the biggest deal breaker for you in another person?
Fish. It tastes great but some types of it have a lot of sharp bones and thorns which need to be separated bit by bit until a small piece of the fish is edible.
Do you believe it’s competition or the desire to become better than we were yesterday that keeps us going? If not, what do you think it is that keeps us motivated and excited to face another day?
For successful people it is. For those who can actually hope to improve and have the opportunities to improve themsleve everyday. But for people who were born in a bad place they only think of surviving. They know that the more they try to improve themsleve the bigger their troubles might get. The only thing that keeps them going is the survival instinct.
What are three questions you ask your new partner, with intent to connect on a deeper level ?
Question about her personality type, favorite type of activities and her view on some social concepts. These are the direct questions. But asking directly is not enough. I've just realized that besides asking questions, I need to observe their behavior and habits to measure their mental and emotional stability and conscience. Without these, their words and answers are all worthless.