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Are you insecure about yourself?

yes, but honestly who isn't insecure about themselves now. there is an image of the perfect person and if you're not that you're disgusting. for girls you need a skinny waist, a big butt and big boobs. for guys it's expected that you have a six pack and be completely ripped, but why don't people focus on other people's personalities because someone could be "ugly" and you wouldn't ever learn how funny or charismatic or kind the person is, and most probably dont, but the people that know that person and are friends with them are the luckiest people in the world because they are the kind of people that uplift you when you're sad and they're just amazing human beings. what i don't understand about our society is that to be "pretty" or "hot" you have to be someone else, you cant be yourself around anyone and eventually the person you're trying to become consumes you and all you care about isn't even real, your old self is gone. and when people do think about personality they only think about "why do they like that stuff" and they're criticizing everything that they say and turning a great person who might have just solved all of the planets problems into a bad person because they dont like their appearance. and that is just the most messed up thing, we will eventually teach our kids who will carry on the same beliefs of "ugly is wrong" it's awful. the main problem with being insecure is its because you want someone to like you, so you change yourself to fit their standards while hitting rock bottom for your own. dress up if you want to dress up not to make someone else happy with themselves, but to boost your self esteem and make you feel good about yourself, if you want to lose weight do it for the right reasons: to be healthy and fit, or if you want to build more muscle: build it to make you stronger and to be overall healthier, not to impress other people. because in the end would you be happier being yourself or being who someone wants you to be.

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