How did u figure that out? And what are ur pronouns?
They/she :3 either is fine. I’ve been raised as girl for so long that ”she” is okay tbh.
I don’t know if this reason is legit, but I’ve always had trouble “remembering” I was a girl??? Or I was seen as such.
I feel like if you have to remind yourself that you are this gender, then it probably isn’t a fit, and looking back on my childhood, I can remember being stunned when I was addressed and treated as a girl; not a bad stunned but like “oh fuck that’s right! I wasn’t even thinking about that.”
But I’ve seen how uncommon that feeling is, and I came to the realization that nothing about me *makes* me a girl.
I don’t even remember my assigned gender—so I probably don’t have one?
I’m not transitioning into anything or making any attempts to look androgynous, so I don’t get huffy when people look at me and think “she”
That’s fine; I know how the world operates, but I also like looking femme and wearing cute pink shit.
I just...don’t identify within the binary, because being femme and cute aren’t enough to drive the connection between cis and gender for me.
I hope that explains it.
I don’t know if this reason is legit, but I’ve always had trouble “remembering” I was a girl??? Or I was seen as such.
I feel like if you have to remind yourself that you are this gender, then it probably isn’t a fit, and looking back on my childhood, I can remember being stunned when I was addressed and treated as a girl; not a bad stunned but like “oh fuck that’s right! I wasn’t even thinking about that.”
But I’ve seen how uncommon that feeling is, and I came to the realization that nothing about me *makes* me a girl.
I don’t even remember my assigned gender—so I probably don’t have one?
I’m not transitioning into anything or making any attempts to look androgynous, so I don’t get huffy when people look at me and think “she”
That’s fine; I know how the world operates, but I also like looking femme and wearing cute pink shit.
I just...don’t identify within the binary, because being femme and cute aren’t enough to drive the connection between cis and gender for me.
I hope that explains it.


