I was in a controlling relationship. We fought and had our problems as well as he had his trust issues. We took a "break" and while on our break someone tried kissing me and after wards he went and told someone that I kissed him. But when I tried telling the truth, of course he didn't believe me. I am not a cheater nor have I even cheated in my life. I believe that if you trust the person you're with wether your in a relationship or on a "break" then you would take their word against everything else. No girl should ever be told that she "deserves to rot in hell" or that she is a cunt so I don't need that in my life. He took away my best friend from me because he thought she was a "bad" influence. I would sit in his driveway and cry because he was so rude or mean to me and he wouldn't even care. I know I have my problems but I am learning to fix them. Was he my bestfriend? Of course he was. But after all of the stuff he said to me, and how he threw my secrets in my face then I know that I do not new that in my life. I am the happiest that I have ever been being single and I am just doing me. I know what kind of person I am and what kind of values and morals I have set for myself. I will never again let a boy tell me that I am a lowlife and tell me who I am, because I know I am so much better than that. But his mom and I still talk often and I know she will ALWAYS be there for me and his sister and I are the best of friends. You learn and you live right?