In the past or recently, what made you decide to accept that guy you could once call your boyfriend? Do u mind sharing the story? If u dont, put yourself in this girl's shoe in the situation above. What would make you accept a guy? ππ
I'm I'll just answer the last statement. to me, I must know the guy long enough to find out what kind of a person he is? And then it's how the guy treats the people around him and more importantly to the girl. when the guy is able to treat the girl as if she's the best thing that ever happened to his life, and show the girl how lucky he is to have her in his life. care for her, be there for her. Sure he can have other friends and even girl friends but he knows how to draw a separation between and treat the girlfriend as his top priority. he shows that he's proud to have her, meaning shows her off to her friends, posts pictures of them on social media.. and proves that he is faithful. all in all, just love the girl and make her feel it, don't let her doubt anything.