im going to assume that attractive means likeable and not just pretty, because pretty people could just have good genetics and ugly souls. (but mostly not).
im also going to assume that finding someone attractive could be purely platonic. i think my friends are attractive.
so...
-confidence but not arrogance (this sounds kind of cheesy)
-being opinionated to the degree that you're no "yes-man" or "yes-woman".
-no double standards regarding who you're nice to or whatever.
this is just general and blah, btw.
that being said, every person is different, including each of my friends, and i like them all for different reasons. so i guess i don't have a complete definition of attractiveness, because it varies per person. i find people attractive because of their various positive quirks.
maybe i could find one person attractive because of their humor, and someone else attractive because of their weirdness. weirdness, you might find, is often a positive trait. so basically, every time i meet a new person that i like, i add something to my definition of attractiveness.
ciao.
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