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Mariam

When is the appropriate time in a relationship to say "I love you"?

I was actually just talking about this last night with a friend, and I'm glad you asked, it's an important question.
Obviously, it's completely up to you and how you feel. NEVER say "I love you" if you don't mean it, and NEVER let anyone pressure you into saying it, especially if you don't feel ready to. You'll regret it, and you'll regret leading the other person on.
"I love you" is a really loaded phrase, and you should only say it when you truly mean it so the significance isn't lost. If you truly feel that you love someone you've only been with for a few weeks, go for it, although I definitely wouldn't recommend dropping the bomb so early. Especially when you don't feel the other person is ready to reciprocate the magnitude of your feelings. I say wait several months before the "I love you"s, but it's all up to you and how you feel inside.
And remember that being in love and loving someone is not always the same thing, so take time to decide what "I love you" truly means and what love means to you. The most important thing is to remember that just because someone tells you they love you does not mean you have to say it back, and remember not to feel pressured to ever reciprocate.
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